(I understand this is a huge shot in the dark considering all the other M4F posts, but it doesn't hurt to try)

I see the messages my wife gets from men so I understand the struggle

I am looking to meet with women interested in fun dates and a casual/lighthearted relationship that can develop into something more or not depending on how she feels about it. I am in an open marriage and happy with my partner, so I am very flexible when it comes to relationship types and styles. I would like to go out and get to know someone without the pressure or presumption of sex. If we get there, cool. If not, also cool. Again, I am open and flexible. If you like talking about your kinks, great. If you like to talk about your hobbies, great. The priority is to be comfortable and have a good time with pressure or presumptions.

A little about me:

‐ 6ft tall (not 5'11", not 6'1". I know people lie and are actually </=5'10" and hope you won't notice); 220lbs - Straight, White (Irish/Scandinavian background) - Shaved head and bearded - Works for a tech company by Union Square, lives in Westchester on the Hudson - Into nerd things such as video games (PC, PS5 & Switch), Dungeons & Dragons, sci-fi - Horror movies and heavy metal - I enjoy archery and axe throwing - On Feeld (also OKCupid and Tinder but not active) - On fetlife as well: Jarl_Stridr - Kink positive (Dom with switch tendencies)

Ideally, would love to connect with someone who shares some interests and would like to meet a down to earth kind of guy who isn't emotional or manipulative. Again, I see the messages my wife gets.

Open to FWB (emphasis on friends), dates, establishing intimacy, long or short term, poly relationship (with or without my partner), consistent and casual and everything in between. Less interested in ONS and flings. If we connect, hit it off and I invite you over to my place, it's definitely so we can play multi-player Switch games.