Hi there! I am just a regular human girl. Poly w/ one NP, demisexual, kink-friendly. I am not entirely sure of what I'm looking for long-term, but right now I'm interested in connecting intellectually and emotionally with other like-minded individuals, building a friendship first, and seeing where that takes us. I am ONLY interested in men ages 28-38. I am NOT in a rush to take things offline, but I would eventually like to, so being local to Philly, NJ (and maybe NYC) is mandatory. If you don't live in this area, or are in a hurry to meet IRL, I'm not your girl.

I'm seeking someone who is emotionally intelligent and a good conversationalist, but also someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and likes to laugh. Deep (and sometimes absurd) conversation good banter is where it's at. I value trustworthiness, honesty, empathy, vulnerability, confidence, good communication skills and a growth-mindset in a partner. I do not value the oxford comma.

Not in a rush to hop into bed, but sexual compatibility is also really important to me. I'm a s-type/bottom leaning switch ideally looking for a Top/D-type. Kinks can be discussed if you fit this criteria. Experience is HUGE here. As is knowing the importance of consent/aftercare/safe sex. I am not interested in being your kinky lil guinea pig. There are a few things I wanna try too, but I have experience with all of my primary kinks.

My vanilla interests/hobbies include post-hardcore, metal and pop punk music, going to shows, keeping active with lifting, yoga hiking, spending time in nature, traveling, painting, photography, good beer and watching baseball. I am very straightforward, sarcastic and sassy but also a sweetheart. I care deeply for the people I allow into my life and love to make others laugh.

Physically, I'm a fit redhead (with a nice ass) with tattoos and a septum piercing, attracted to men who are tall (gotta beat 5’8”) and fit/muscular (need to be able to throw me around, yanno?) If you also have tattoos in addition to those things, I will probably drool over you. As a demisexual person, I'm more interested in what you have to say rather than how you look, but I still have my preferences.

I'll primarily be considering those who already have experience with having multiple partners (rather than being totally new), and understand how to be a good hinge partner. No cigarette smokers, no conservatives. BLM, mental health is important and abortion is healthcare. If you disagree—kindly—kick rocks 😇

MUST respond with a SFW photo of yourself (doesn't need to be a face pic!!) and some info about you! Give me your best sales pitch. I will not respond to anyone who does not follow this request. Please be patient with me as I weed through responses. If I feel like we're hitting it off I will ask you to verify with me.

Thanks! If you’ve made it this far I appreciate you 💖