A few false starts and ready to put myself out there. I'm married, and open, and cautious about new people. I think I'd feel more comfortable being someone's secondary because it feels very strongly definite.
The people who tend to be most attracted to me lean sentimental and romantic. The way to my heart is an appreciation for a cerebral witty sense of humor.
Did you grow up on Blackadder or Yes Minister? Or the first eight seasons of The Simpsons? Or any Frantz Fanon? Do you enjoy puzzles, or soldering? Do you like using power tools a little too much? Do you access your Raspberry Pi via SSH keys?
A major reason my relationship is open is because my spouse has no submissive desires. This is something I'm hoping to explore with the right person. It took a long time to get to a place where I feel I can share this desire, and trust someone with it.
There is no substitute for connection and I am in no hurry to meet anyone. It is also the holidays, so who has the time? If you are interested, let's take our time getting to know one another. I am just as interested in making a friend as I am to meet a lover. Like my username says, I am Black and that defines a whole lot of my lived experience. If that makes you uncomfortable, I understand.
I think that's it? T'is late.
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