About us: We are a very chill and attractive couple looking for a third to join our relationship. I (M) am 6’5”, fit and muscular, straight. She (F) is 5’3”, curvy and slim, with H cup breasts, pansexual. We both have been active in the swinger and BDSM lifestyle for as long as we’ve been together, 10 years. We’ve attended parties/meet ups to find potential singles and sometimes couples to play with. But it’s gotten to the point that we now prefer to just find someone we want to have be involved with us both in and out of the bedroom.

Vanilla Side: We are pretty relaxed. When we have no plans for the evening, we tend to lay in bed and watch tv before sleep. We enjoy a wide range of genres and media. We are nerdy and enjoy sci-fi, fantasy, action/adventure shows, movies and stories. We love anime and have created an extensive list of anime’s that we offer to friends who know nothing about anime, by describing them in three key words. We enjoy gaming as well. I game on console and she’s a mobile gamer. We tend to get into deep discussions about things we watch and read as well. Can easily loose an hour as we recap a movie we just watched and talk about things we did/n’t like about it. What could have made it better or worse. I workout 6x a week and her work keeps her physically active. She is also looking for someone who she can go to and explore bakeries with, as well as fine dining. We also have cats. They are adorable demons, but we love them.

Dark Side: Being together for 10 years, we have really developed and solidified a wide range of kinks. We enjoy impact play, bondage, roleplaying just to name a few. I lean heavily towards Dom and she towards Sub. She is also a burlesque performer. We are really into communication and boundaries, like REALLY into it. Open communication is a must, not saving harbored emotions until they explode. We’re here for open dialogue and a safe space.

You: Big shoes to fill. We had a third we were incredibly close to and they unfortunately passed away. It has been a while, but we want to find that same connection again. We’re not looking for a carbon copy of our previous partner, we want to find someone that we enjoy being around. We prefer you to be as attractive as us both physically and mentally. Close to our age. Height can vary between ours, 5’3” to 6’5”. Height and weight proportionate preferred, but if you have a little extra curve or muscle, we don’t mind. Must enjoy holding a conversation and really engaging in thoughts and discussions. Must enjoy or be interested in exploring BDSM kinks. PLEASE NOTE that our relationship with you would not limit either party to closed off sexual experiences, you are not limited to just us, just keep us in the loop and COMMUNICATE.

Side Note: I do most of the chatting online, but suck at talking in person. Whereas she’s a conversationist in person, but her schedule doesn’t allow much online interaction. When reaching out to us, be assured that we are both looking over potential partners and we will both agree on whether to pursue or pass on responses to our post.