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21/25 [FM4F] Online/Anywhere — looking for a long-term romantic partner to build a life with
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SPELaertes are a male/female couple ages 21 & 25 looking for a female
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This may be controversial, but hear us out. We genuinely support that triad relationships are A B, A C, B C and A B C. We are willing to reshape our relationship when there is a new partner in our life. We’re also happy to accommodate the new partner’s wants and needs, striving to find a balance between all of us together. If the connection isn’t working for one of them, the other person is free to pursue it on their own. This is not for hookups, friends with benefits or sexual partners. Open to ages 18-28.

Hey! We’re a 21F and 25M online long distance, interfaith, intercultural east south Asian couple who is hoping to meet in person after some years have passed. While we’re dating, 21F has learned that she is a polyamorous person who wants a closed triad with a MF couple because she wants to have a greater variety of experiences in committed partnerships. Over time, 25M has opened himself to the idea of being in a throuple, so 21F is now excited to build a serious connection with a cisgender girl who values quality time, someone who wants to move to 21F and 25M after they establish their relationship in real life.

The two of us individually and combined have so many hobbies and interests that it’s hard to list all of them here. Some of the things 21F likes are listening to podcasts, singing classical music and reading fictional books. A few things that 25M likes are sharing wholesome memes, watching Instagram reels and doing house maintenance. Three activities we both have in common include watching cartoons/anime, playing video games and going on trips. While 21F is seeking for an intellectual connection who would challenge her perspectives and broaden her horizons, 25M is looking for an experiential connection to enjoy the present moment and laugh about silly things.

Some goals after settling together are working remotely from home, travelling around the world, and raising a multilingual multicultural family, but we’d love to have more ideas! We believe that finding a (cis) girl from a different background than both of us can offer us a lot of space to learn and grow throughout our lifetime. A bonus for us is if you’re a Muslim or Catholic, since 25M is a Muslim and 21F is a Catholic, but it’s okay if you’re not! We can’t wait to talk to you, develop an emotional bond, and see how everything will pan out for us! Our dealbreakers are people who smoke (in any form), drink alcohol, do drugs (except for prescribed medications by doctors), and people who are intolerant towards organised religion. We’re also averse of people whose bodies are full of tattoos and piercings, as well as people who dye their hair often and use impolite language/cuss regularly.

Send a private message to this account or comment below if you’re interested!

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a male/female couple
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21 & 25
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a female
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10 months ago