Hi I am looking for something casual and preferably longer term but am open to whatever suits what we both want and maybe something more serious if its something we both want. I mostly prefer open communication poly but am more then open to other kinds if that is more comfy and works for you. I currently have 1 partner in Canada LDR of course for 3 years and do plan to close the distance within 2 years at the moment and being nesting partners. I am looking to date solo but am open to other possibilities if it is something everyone wants.

Some things about me I'm 5 10 tattooed (full sleeve) long dark brown hair dark brown eyes a weigh 240 pounds and working on it, more then happy to exchange pics. Currently looking for someone who that has some overlapping interests like gaming (im mostly pc), going to the movies watching anime/shows going to concerts(love metal concerts they make me so happy for ages after going) exploring new places/nature/history/art/technology and a smattering of other stuff. Its no fun if we have nothing in common to talk about at all haha. I love sharing stories and talking shit and I am great at listening to others too I really enjoy learning more about people I have a curious mind. I also like going on walks and museums and other interesting things like old buildings with a lot of history and other things like that i am very curious by nature so expect me to ask questions often haha.

Personality wise I am honest, open, caring, empathetic and nerdy. I hold myself and others I choose to be in my life to a high standard of ethics when it comes to treatment of others I believe we are all one people and feel we already have enough suffering and pain in the world lets try not add more into it. I am very easy to excite about stuff I'm passionate about and love to share that with the people I'm close too. I believe you should treat others how you want to be treated and that kindness and empathy can cost you so little but go such a long way for others when they are down and need a little support can really make their week. I respect all kinds of people and walks of life as long as it isn't causing harm to others it matters not to me.

About more intimacy compatibility I love to cuddle and be playful through the day and really enjoy physical contact once I am comfy with someone. I am very open minded and only a few things for me are a hard no. I am a switch more Dom leaning but enjoy both situations. I am always up for trying new things i have never even come across or thought about before. There is quite a lot of both vanilla and BDSM things I haven't tried and am very interested in it. All I look for in another person is open mindedness.

Thanks for reading my ted talk haha hope to hear back from some of you interesting fellow redditors! And feel free to ask me any questions I will answer anything.