After another firework that burned out, I am back on the prowl for my very specific match. I'm ENM, and what I want is a genuine connection with another person. I don't want fwb, or casual hookups. I want to be able to call you my boyfriend and give you my love. I want a loving and kinky relationship that lasts for the long haul. I wanna go on dates and meet up from time to time (depending on distance and stuff)

Obviously not right away, but that's my endgame. It's very important that we click emotionally and sexually to me - in equal parts.

So who I am:

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1160412838024712273/1173058830075179028/20231108_235314.jpg

I can't describe myself for shit so see above picture

• 5'7/8, Brown hair, overweight (its a work in progress)

• huge nerd for video games especially colony sims and rpgs

• love movies and media, I binge a lot of stuff while working

• high libido that can be a hindrance more than a blessing

• self conscious

• a dumb joke teller

What I want:

• Age 30 - 42, no I will not go lower. This has been proven to be a mistake several times. Sorry young dudes

• Left wing, liberal, vaxxed

• Someone with enough time to hang out and either game together or watch shit or just talk

• Someone who can keep up with my libido - a dominant. I'll get more specific in DMs.

• Someone who is either going to have me as a temporary primary or a secondary.

• Someone who doesn't mind getting deep and open about topics

• Someone who loves giving comfort and attention (I'm a big baby sometimes, what can I say)

• Someone who just genuinely wants me

• Someone who shares a similar humor to me (I think you should leave with Tim Robinson usually cracks me up, or What we do in the shadows season 1 and 2)

• Someone who loves chatting on vc and just letting the hours fall away

• Someone who hates Big Bang Theory and Funko Pops (sorry I just cannot with those)

• Someone with a deepish voice - a smooth talker is 🔥 🥵

Idk if this is everything. I learn more and more about what I need to specify with each try hahaha please for the love of God be my match and end this hellscape of a search.