Hello - I'm fairly new to polyamory for myself. I'm happily married for over 20 years and our relationships is stable & strong. My wife has had a "friend" for many years. Recently, we've discussed me opening up more for a similar dynamic. I'm no expert in this world, so please be patient and open with me if we connect. Her and I have established some ground rules to ensure we are on the same page. Honesty and transparency are most important to us.

First and foremost, my wife does want to get to know you on some level. This is very important to me. I have a connection with her friend, and it works great. This is something we can talk about early to make sure we are aligned.

Secondly, I would love it you were in the Florida panhandle or close. For this to work, it would be nice to be able to actually hang out when trust is established. I am not against a long-distance relationship if we really hit it off. To be clear, I am not looking for casual sex or a hookup of any kind. I realize this is not the subreddit for that, but I've read plenty of stories in other subs about people using different channels so they can find new sex partners. Sex is the least of my priorities right now.

I'm in software sales and my career is going well, but I am not one of those career-only type people. I believe in having fun, trying new things and always learning. I'm a bit of a deep thinker and that means I do over think things sometimes! Love to be outdoors, stay active and take care of myself as a balance to enjoying good food and drinks whenever the mood calls for that.

Outside of the world seeming a little crazier by the week, I feel like I'm in a good spot in life to add this dimension. Maybe it doesn't work, but I'll always communicate. If this sounds intriguing, hit me up through chat and let's start there. Thank you!