I've been ENM since I was 18 and actively poly since 2012. I'm secure and easygoing, very compersive with very little jealousy. I'm seeking a connected relationship with someone who is emotionally and physically available to potentially build something meaningful -- though not necessarily trying to get to the top of the relationship escalator.
I have a married partner of 7 years that I see a couple of times a week, and a FWB that I see once a week. After a little over a year with the FWB, I've realizing I need something more connected. The FWB is more of a light femdom dynamic that primarily consists of worship. While I'm open to some different dynamics, I've found that I'm a giver at heart and really love worship and servicing -- which is not as present with my long-term partner.
I'm stable, have a good career, and have my own place. I'm attractive and active, I love adventure and trying new things, and I'm very open minded.
I'm looking for someone IRL only; nearby or visits the Bay Area regularly; and is comfortable with being the focus of attention 90-100% of the time. I'm not looking for anything hardcore -- in fact, other than the worship part, I've somewhat vanilla (though open to being less so). Please be in decent shape and over 45.
Thanks!
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