Hey there! I’m a 21 year old polyamorous single who is looking for couples aged 18-26 to connect with meaningfully and have romantic relationships with (NO hookups or FwBs). I’m bilingual (English and Cantonese), and neurodivergent (AuDHD) with a wide range of hobbies and interests. This includes reading fiction, writing diaries/stories, singing classical music, listening to podcasts, watching anime and child-friendly cartoons, travelling to new places, and so many more that’s hard to list entirely.

Ideally, I would like to look for a fellow polyamorous Christian couple with common interests and aspirations in life, since I’m undergoing catechumen classes to become a Catholic, but it’s okay if you’re non-religious (as long as you allow me to take them to church and teach them about those beliefs practices. I’m not inflexible about faith). Currently, I’m on a study break, and I’m hoping to study either a Bachelor’s Degree in Translation or Information Management next September. I’m not financially independent either, which means moving individually to your location will not be an option at the moment. We’ll be in a LDR for some years first until I get a stable job before we can narrow the gap (unless you end up being in wherever I am/will be staying).

By the way, I’m formally diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder (DID), which means I have alternate states of identity with different thoughts, feelings, opinions, preferences and backstories that may or may not have feelings for you, even when we are in a romantic relationship together, so I hope you’ll be able to respect that. I’m not comfortable with anyone who smokes in any form and that’s a DEALBREAKER for me. I’d also prefer people who don’t drink alcohol at all, but it’s okay if you drink it occasionally. My (heritage) language and culture, along with having an intellectual connection, are important to me too. It would be nice if we could have kids together eventually, but it’s not a prerequisite.

If you guys are down for someone like me, who’s willing to embrace my quirks, accept me as who I am vulnerably and ride through all the ups and downs, I’m more than happy to be a loving and supportive partner who is eager to pamper, show affection, protect and prepare more surprises along the way. Comment in this post or send me a DM to let me know that you’re interested! Thanks 😊!