I'm pretty easy-going and tend to go with the flow. My wife was the one who brought up the idea of polyamory a few years back, and I had never thought of it before. After talking about it extensively, it seemed like it would be a good thing for us, as we're both very confident in our relationship and feel like we have a lot of love to give. We've been in one other poly relationship now, but got our hearts kinda shattered in that one. She prefers women in general, but I was apparently the exception. That's also part of the reason she wants to have a poly relationship. There are things that I can't relate to and that I'm only able to empathize with. I'm also okay to just let her have a solo relationship , but unless you can convince her of that, it's probably not happening. We will love you with everything we have, and we can probably be a bit much sometimes lol.

My name is Jacob, and she calls me a golden retriever gamer boy lol, but apparently that's a known descriptor in the online community. I'm a nerd, but I like to keep it on the DL. I love science, specifically space, AI neuroscience, and quantum physics, but I don't really talk about it (mainly because there isn't too many people with the same interests). I play video games, obviously, photography, dnd, and I would really love even just a friend that plays a lot of instruments like I do to just jam with. I sing, play guitar, piano, drums, etc., and it's hard to find other musicians. I grew up a country boy, but later in life realized I didn't like that lifestyle. Oh, I'm 5'11", 210 pounds. In a weight transient. I go from 180-220 randomly every year.

Her name is Carissa. She's an alternative, emo, pastel goth witch, though her style is always changing. She's 5'4" barely 100 pounds, loves miniskirts, thigh-highs, and platform heels. I could honestly talk all day about her. She's just the right amount of batshit insane, she's sweet, kind, and very loving. She enjoys baking, doing crafts, making home decor, art, reading, some video games, and she loves herbology. She, like myself, has ASD, which can make it a little difficult to talk to people initially, but we can fake it with the big leagues. If you want her insta, it's carissa_anneh. She used to do modeling and acting(I did all of her photos hehe), so it's public anyways. I'm sure you'll see me on there, too.

We're probably going to be trying to have a baby sometime in the next 2 years, so we are okay with single moms if that's your situation. We're in the process of buying a house with 4 bedrooms and 3800 Sqft, so, you know 😘.