Hello all! I’m looking for a like-minded couple to form a triad with. A little about me: I’m 34 and married, we date separately. I have a full time job plus a side/passion-project. I’m into music (I have an eclectic taste that spans many genres, but I guess I mainly look for what's catchy), sci-fi (currently reading The Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler), podcasts & audiobooks, gaming (when I have time), cybersecurity, I’m just sort of an all-around nerd. Bit of anime (not in a long while), casual Marvel, tinkerer (mostly with computers), etc. I have two cats and a ball python. Politically I’m left of center (by American standards, so centrist by global standards I think?). I’m 5’ 10” and currently 240 lbs, but trying to lose weight. Currently working on calorie restriction as my schedule and energy make it hard to commit to exercise, but eventually I want to get back into running, especially with the weather cooling off in my neck of the global woods.
As for what I’m looking for, I'm pretty flexible in terms of my "type." Obviously I lean toward the more nerdy stuff, so if you do too we'll probably get along a lot better, but that said you don't have to be a hardcore self-hosting linux user like me. But in general I tend to get along with a wide rang of people. For some reason I tend to really attract & gravitate toward the witchy types, so if you've made it this far and you're pagan or wiccan you should definitely reach out, we will almost certainly get along lol. That said I get along just fine with most people, so if you're interested don't be afraid to shoot your shot. Sexually speaking I'm heteroflexible. I prefer my men to be more feminine, but other than that I’m open to all body types, gender identities, ethnicities, religious beliefs (I'm agnostic, personally), etc. I describe myself as "kink-friendly." Not really kinky myself but open to most of them. Ideally I would prefer someone in Austin, but I may be open to an LDR for the right people. I suppose I'm also open to meeting an individual, but I'm mainly looking for that triad dynamic, as I said.
That’s all I got. If I missed anything feel free to ask questions. I’m happy to send a pic or two via DM. I don't use Snap, Kik, Telegram, Discord, etc, but if we hit it off we can discuss other communication channels. Hope to hear from some cool people!