Hi there! I'm a 33 year old ENM Mom - married, but my partner wants 0 involvement, so I'm just me. I'm gonna try to be as concise and specific as possible. I don't want to have a great conversation then hit a roadblock I could've avoided by being specific here. :P

About me:
- https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1160412838024712273/1160412860212576396/20230520\_224501.png?ex=653491b1&is=65221cb1&hm=c50962463093e43518fe83dec0e45143b2f02c85f8960993f65ca2e0e45d19e1&=&width=419&height=558
- 5'7-8ish, brown hair, chubby (working on it :'|)
- Very high libido
- Sex is one of my love languages, probably the primary one
- Love video games, like a lot. Managements, rpg, adventure, souls-like, colony sims, puzzlers etc
- Love to draw things
- Trying to learn to woodcarve but it hurts my thumbs
- Love horror and thriller movies as well as dark comedy and animations (I loved Nimona)
- Self conscious and insecure, need a lot of reassurance that you want me there
- Talks a lot
- Funny (at least I think I am >:x)
- Likes to learn new things from people who are passionate about them
- Loves to VC and chat a lot
- Love animals, hate hunting :(

What I want:
- Age: 30-42
- Someone who is looking for a sub, as well as a partner since I don't separate my feelings in sex
- Dom style: able to be sadistic, as well as very gentle - the contrast is my favorite, makes everything more impactful. You can check my add on the bdsm subreddit if you want specifics on this.
- Patience
- Someone who is either, a) single and will take me as a temp-primary until they find their main, and I take secondary role, or b) someone in an established marriage/relationship and I would be your secondary
- Deep voice not necessary but a huge plus
- Physical attraction, this isn't to say I want like a 10/10- I simply like what I like and that comes in many forms. :x
- Able to travel if we hit it off for IRL play sessions
- Someone who hates Big Bang Theory or just doesn't watch it. I hate that show. :|
- Someone who can be open about their experiences and we can talk to eachother - be each others' confidant.
- Likes video games and wants to either play with me or let me watch, or they watch me. It's a huge part of me so this is pretty necessary.
- Someone left leaning in politics (usually I don't worry about this, but it's become more of a human rights issue)
- Someone who wants to VC with me and talk about all sorts of stuff as well as have play at the drop of a hat

I'm sure I forgot lots of stuff, but if you've made it this far, hit me up. Bonus points if you send a picture so we can gauge mutual attraction, but not necessary if you wanna talk first. Please tell me about you, and what kind of things interest you.