I've some important bits to get out of the way first, so here's that: I'm immunocompromised, and have Multiple Sclerosis on top of it - I've only got a few years left to do anything with my body, and I no longer want to spend those years neglecting my needs. I'm married, but my wife is a sex-averse aroace who has always condoned additional partners, and enjoys meeting them(but will not participate in anything sexual or romantic).

I'm looking for someone to share my hobbies with - at least one, really, but more importantly to talk to, to care about, and to feel cared for by. I'm not seeking a bangmaid or a caretaker. Discord(or phone) calls, frequent messaging throughout the day, and ideally eventual in-person meetups(with the possibility of cohabitation). Given my health concerns, dining out, and many public activities in general, are off the table unless they're things like hiking, sightseeing, etc. which I am open to.

As I don't work, I spend the majority of my time on my hobbies. I paint Warhammer 40k miniatures, I play games from nearly any genre(currently playing through Baldur's Gate 3, but I've also done Armored Core 6 3 times over and will probably do more, I'm active in Titanfall 2, etc), binge watch movies/shows, burn through books relating to Warhammer 40k, and I'm still learning Bass Guitar.

I have 10 cats(yes, 10), all extremely well cared-for, and I used to operate a Feline Rescue and Sanctuary before moving to PA; these 10 are mostly ones that couldn't be rehomed, but they're a major part of my life that have to be mentioned. I live in a 5 story 4 bedroom house, with a spare room that housed my previous partner(who was just using me for lodging, basically, and it didn't go well).

I love animals, and I am extremely good with them. I have a masters degree in Biology, specializing in Herpetology, and am a retired LPN nurse. I've been mostly shut-in for the past few years due to Covid, and any physical contact would require that my partners be highly, highly aware of potential vectors for infection - I'm not exactly a boy in a bubble, but my body is incapable of making use of vaccinations, so our little coronavirus friend is an extra special danger to me.

I want someone I can fall in love with, genuinely. Someone to hold my hand as things go wherever they go, but also just someone to joke around with during the day, maybe stream movies together(or watch them together in-house), learn to paint together. But also, someone I can support, and be there for, emotionally and physically(financially isn't really an option, we're comfortable and if a third moves into the house they won't have to pay more than a third of the rent, but that's as much as can be afforded. If you're looking for a sugardaddy, keep walking).

Hopefully this resonates with someone. Hopefully someone out there understands, really understands, the value of time spent with people. I don't have a whole lot of it to offer, but I will do everything I can to learn about you, prop you up, and make your life better for having had me in it. If any of this seems like a risk worth taking, send me a DM on reddit. Have a nice day!

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