My wife recently asked me what I wanted out of non-monogamy. I said, “The freedom to explore intellectual and sensual intimacy with women that I find brilliant, talented, attractive, and fascinating.”

She replied that what she wanted was to have a mind-blowing fuck fest with a super-hot guy she knows. Well, if I’m being honest, that kind of thing would work for me too.

I really am turned on by a women who ate self-aware and confident enough to go full speed living an honest life consisting of her deepest desires, even if that means something as non-conforming as multiple lovers. That woman makes me swoon! Is it you?

It’s relatively recent change for me, but living a poly life has me more continually aroused than I’ve been in at least a decade. I’m loving it. . . and want to share.. . . with you, if you agree that sexual passion is gooooood and can get even more intense with maturity. Consent is soooooo sexy.

But, I can also be a shallow man. No point in hiding it. A pretty face drives me to distraction. If you have lovely breasts I’m beside myself. If you have large lovely breasts, I’m over the moon.

Oh, BTW, I’m very handsome, slim, in shape, 5’10”. I’m a performing and creative artist and I work in a very public place. I’m not shy about being seen with dates who are not my spouse. I hope you feel similarly, but if not, I can be discreet.

I don’t drink, but it’s okay if you have one or two. I’m sensitive to alcoholism. My first wife drank herself to death. (Long after our split.) But I actually like sitting at the bar in nice restaurants.

I live in the burbs but have a pied-a-terre in the city which is perfect for trysts, although my daughter is living there temporarily. She knows she’s cramping my style, so she has plans to vacate ASAP.

I’d better stop. I’m already getting boring. I do like to write. Drop me a note if anything is of interest.

Oh, you being over 50 and married are pluses, but not dealbreakers.