About my body -> 26 year old TransWoman, 5’5”, 215Ibs. I have been on Hormone Replacement therapy for 8 years and feel like I pass very easily, so long as I keep up my beauty routines. I have’t had top surgery but certainly don’t need it at this point (I have tits); as for bottom surgery goes I would like to have that one day, but money is a huge factor. If you wanna pay for my surgery please message me lmao. Im have a mixed heritage: Dad’s side is Russian/Germanic Jews and my Mom’s is Native Central Americans mixed with the Spanish Colonials. At the end of the day I look like a slightly more olive toned white person. I am a bit thicc and have a belly but also have a fair amount of strength. Im not frail or sedentary by anymeans. I’m Pansexual and polyamorous; I currently have 1 romantic partner who is also my anchor partner. I date any partners separately, without the expectation for you to become a “third” or something like that. Communication is extremely important to me also, as poly doesn’t work without honest and continual communication.

What Im looking for is a more masculine energy in my life. Whether thats a Transman, Masc leaning Enby, Butch lesbian, or even the ocassional cis dude. While I may be wanting something more masculine in my life I am open to others, so if youre a femme or something else entirely thats okay too. Im looking for connections above all else. I have a phrase I like to use: “Hearts, not parts.” If we end up vibing we vibe. As for preferences, people who identify as alternative, punk, or queer tend to be who I am attracted to.

As for why I want a more masculine presence in my life, I’ve been dating almost exclusively women since my ex-boyfriend(4 year relationship) and I broke up and I think Im ready for that type of energy to be in my life again in a serious capacity. There is something super validating as a Transwoman about dating someone with masculine energy. I’m also not looking for anything super sexual to begin with. Im on a personal journey of sexual healing right now, and need my boundaries to be respected. I am a very sexual person at my core(username and post history says it all), however I’ve been hurt over the years in ways im still learning how to heal from. Something for any AFAB people to consider as well, especially Transmen, is that most of my trauma stems from AFAB abusers, so while I really enjoy those connections, know I may be a bit shy and standoffish at first. It’s really not you, its my trauma.

Some more info about me and my interests, since people find that kinda stuff important on personal ads. I used to be more phsycially active, partaking in parkour, performance art, and breakdancing. Ive transitioned to playing more video games as my energy and time became a massive constraint while I was finishing school. Some of my fave franchises are Legend of Zelda(TotK was so hype), Dishonored, Darksiders, and Pokemon. I also have been playing alot of DnD the past few years, as well as other TTRPGS(Vampire The Masquerade). Always down for anime, cartoons, horror, or sci-shows so if you like that kinda stuff too, awesome! I have fallen out of my hyperfixation on the Yugioh Card game, but rest assured it will be back in several years when I least expect it. I’m a meme queen for certain, filled with absurdist and sarcastic humor. Lastly my music tatses are all over the place but I really like Jazzhop, Lofi, and 90’s Alternative(the angstier the better).

Eventually I’m planning to move out West to Washington, so that is something to consider as well. Maybe youre local to the greater Charlotte area already and we can grow close now, or perhaps you’re living out west already and think we may vibe when I make it there. My plan has me there in .5-1.5 years. It’s looking more and more like it will be on the longer side since I need time to save money.

If you made it this far I hope to hear from you. Shoot me a DM about yourself. Also tell me about your favorite non-traditional breakfast food, just cause.