Heyo all! As the title suggests, I am pretty new to the poly lifestyle and would love to give it an honest try! I've done some research and such, but I never know what I truly enjoy until the moment I try it out. That said, I know I'm emotionally mature enough to be able to talk through any issues we may have, so l'm not coming into this as a potential relationship ender. If anything, I'll end up leaving y'all much closer together than before.
As for the less serious parts of me, l'm a huge nerd. Even if I haven't consumed a piece of media I still enjoy watching deep dives on the lore of various medias and love listening to people go on about their passions with them! I'm also a pretty good cook and baker, and I love making people's favorites for them to enjoy! I'm also an avid reader of old school smut, and an amateur writer! But I also love to go out and do stuff like hiking, swimming, and camping! But I'm definitely more than happy to have a big cuddle party and watch our favorite shows and YouTube videos.
For more physical info, I'm 6'1, a decent shape but working on getting toned, long brown hair, a decent beard, tatted and pierced, and have light blue eyes that I've often been told are my best features. I'm Amab but go by he/ they, although you can use whatever pronouns are easiest for you!
Onto the nsfw side of things. I'm a switch, but in either role I love playing the people pleaser. That doesn't mean I can't Dom and use you for what I enjoy, but that'll be with your enthusiastic consent. I would like to try out being the sub for once, but it's not necessary that you only be a Dom. I love giving head, I paid for this tongue piercing and I'm damn well gonna use it! I also know I love blindfolds, light bondage (ie tying you to the bed, handcuffs, stuff like that), temperature play, sensory play, and more than I'm sure I'm forgetting! That said, you don't have to be into everything I am, and if you have stuff you enjoy that I didn't mention let me know! I'm down to try anything at least once, and make it a regular part even if I don't particularly enjoy it.
Now about you. Honestly, my only real requirements are to be a good person; ie not conservative/ republican, A good communicator, and be okay with physical affection. Even outside of the more nsfw stuff, I enjoy the simple shows of affection, hand holding, forehead kisses, and throwing my arm around you are important ways that I show I care. Beyond that, I'm fine with whatever. You can already be in a pre established relationship, so long as it's a healthy one, or you can be single and wanting to try it out the same as me. I will ask that you either be located in the us, or have the ability to travel fairly easily. I do work and make enough to survive, but not enough to fly across the world everytime I want cuddles.
Anyways, if any of that appeals to you feel free to send a message! Let me know what you're favorite board game is if you managed to read this far. And if I'm not your particular cup of tea, no worries! I wish you the best on finding that person for you and your partners.
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