Disclaimer: I would say my primary relationship falls somewhere on the hierarchical to anchor spectrum of poly. I have a primary partner I live with, but we do not date together. Currently no children, just pets. Please have time to have a relationship, I don't require all of your attention but I believe across the board nobody wants to feel ignored.

Hello, folks. :) I'm venturing out here as a newly poly person who is still very much trying to figure this whole scene out, but also willing to learn.

I will not claim to be perfect or saintly, being guilty of feeling insecure and having lots of jealousy/envy emotions at times. That being said, I think I am a decent partner.

About me: 2 dogs, 2 cats, plus sized, 5'6", gamer (player and watcher!), enthusiastic, average to high sex drive, want kids, would love to be married, want a small hobby farm (10 acres or so), cannabis enthusiast, long-time nanny and labor/postpartum doula as well as doing new parent education courses.

I love to read and am trying to get back into it, but for now I bide my time doing text-based role play online. Huge gamer nerd, though most of what I play is unmodded vanilla games I have a community that I game with regularly and am a huge fan of party games as well as co-op/survival stuff!

Don't get me started about conception, babies or kids, I could talk forever. :)

I'm looking for someone who is my age, maybe slightly older or younger but definitely over 30 and not over 50. Hopefully you are taller than me, I like strong arms but it isn't a hard qualification you must meet. :P Be fun, funny, not abusive or unkind. Open-minded and wanting children is a huge plus for me, bonus points if you do not yet have them but are capable of making them, lol.

Ideally you will live near to me within like 2-ish hours. Be financially secure, or at least able to pay your rent every month, I would hope! :)

If anything you hear sparks your interest, let me know. I am happy to exchange pictures, as well as other forms of communication. PLEASE say something about yourself, I absolutely loathe short messages as the initial message. I'm taking the time to write this, it would be great if you also took some time to think about yourself and tell me what you think! Thank you so much and I look forward to hearing from you soon, stranger!