Heyo I'm a 20yo transfem (non-op and yet to get my hands on estrogen lol) from europe (so "bonus points" if you are already in europe or are looking to move there anyway lol, but you don't have to, i just like the idea of in the future hanging out in person, I'm still alright with online stuff but idk i don't like being chained to online texting and calls only). What I'm looking for is meaningful connections basically. And what describes best how i approach connects is a combination of relationships anarchy and solo poly. I'm also demi romantic and demi sexual, so with that (and the last sentence too) in mind, what i use to describe how i think of connections with others is a closeness scale, 10 being the equivalent of life partnership and super deep and close things like that, while 1 ofc being the total opposite. My aim would be towards only a 9 because i can't do 10s. But anyway, i prefer letting stuff develop on its on at its own pace. I just wanted to say all of this as a first thing. 😁

I guess my main interests are philosophy and storytelling (and of course stuff revolving around those two things). Lol i never know how to talk about myself unless I'm talking on a specific subject. I can end up writing pretty big texts in replies but if i don't have much to say i struggle with maxing it be more than a couple of words.

Something else that's important, the past 5 years have been kinda rough so yea i now have to deal with some pretty bad general burnout. This manifests in many many ways, but i just wanted you to know that if my replies are late it's because i very likely feel too tired to respond (plus i kinda have a fixation with quality ovet quantity, so if i don't have enough energy for a proper conversion i subconsciously feel like delaying it). I don't like ghosting, and i wouldn't want you to think it's that.

Anyway, thank you for your time!

And also, as long as this post exists then yea I'm still open to you reaching out :3