Obligatory "I'm married", but at this point we're basically just roommates with an open marriage.

Hey there! I'm a 39 year old man living in the Midwest. I'm not in a great marriage, to be honest most nights we barely say 5-10 words to each other. I'm looking for an escape from the day to day loneliness that eats at you after a while. I'm 5'7', a big guy on a pretty epic weight loss journey, with shorter hair and a beard. I am more than happy to swap SFW pics. I miss feeling important. Feeling wanted. Feeling.. loved?

I grew up playing football and boxing, but I have been a bigger guy most of my life. Over the last few year and a half I have been putting more focus on improving my health, both mentally and physically. I’m finally feeling like the old me, but also growing more aware of how lonely life can be when you don't have someone to funnel your time and affection into.

I am a PC gamer, watch a ton of Netflix, Disney , and YouTube in my spare time. I'm extremely happy to geek out on Marvel, Doctor Who, Harry Potter, video game lore, and all sorts of other stuff. This also means that I'm almost always near my phone or my computer, which means I'm available to talk most hours of the day assuming I'm awake. I also love to read, but recently I haven't found a series that has really captured my attention recently.

What I'm Looking For:

While I'm not trying to change either of our situations, I also very much do want to change our situations. If we were happy we wouldn't be here, right? I would love to find something long term and I am not even remotely afraid of catching feelings, but I'm also not trying to rush into some sort of relationship either. That being said, when I fall I tend to fall hard. I don't really look for short term because I get bored extremely quickly if there isn't a real connection there.

I do not have any set "type" I'm looking for, but I tend to be most attracted to short, thick/curvy/BBW brunettes or blondes. If that's not you, that's fine! I'm far more interested in who you are than what you look like. I have no preference on whether or not you have kids - my main concern is that you have time to actually talk every day. I prefer you to be MST/CST/EST, as and that just tends to work out the best since I'm CST.

If you're a PC gamer, great! If not, who cares? Just be fun and nerdy - we'll figure the rest out together. The only things I ask of you are that you have time to actually get to know someone and use either Discord or Telegram - I won't use anything else and Reddit chat sucks so I'd rather move off as soon as we know there's any sort of chemistry.