TLDR shall we explore whether we can emotionally and sexually enrich each other's lives? (Pretentious I knowπ but I honestly can't think of a better way to put itπ€·ββοΈ)
I am absurdly (for a heterosexual Australian man) love/romance orientated, reading romance books (The Spymaster's Lady is my favourite book, Tessa Dare and Lucy Parker my favourite romance authors), watching romance movies (Pretty Woman, Notting Hill, Groundhog Day, Four Weddings and a Funeral and The Princess Bride are my favourites) and have romance scenes in my head that I can think about for a burst of romantic warmth inside me. (Are you beginning to see why polyamory's extra love WORKS for me?π)
My idea of a perfect physical date is me, a woman I am falling for, and privacy. I literally can't imagine anything better than cuddling, cuddling while talking and the most emotionally intimate sex positions.π€·ββοΈ There is that whole, "absurdly love/romance orientated" thing again.π There is also the fact that my primary love language is the intersection of touch and quality time that is cuddling. The lack of this over the last 3 years qualifies me as, "touch starved".π€¦ββοΈ (The dog who is currently sitting beside me on the recliner, sleeping with her head under my arm vehemently disagrees that I am touch starved with her around but what does she know?π)
My idea of a perfect online relationship is spending time with a woman I am falling for. I can, of course, buddywatch, buddyread or buddygame (I am not a gamer, but did play some games decades ago and can do so again) with her but I don't actually need to. Yet again that whole, "absurdly love/romance orientated" thing shows itself.π
I am incessantly playful and basically incompatible with anyone who doesn't find me amusing as my constant joking would be infuriating. Please have a look through my history for comments with π or π or π€£ emojis to see if our senses of humour align.
Solo poly and like it that way.
I absolutely adore that with polyamory you don't need, "can live together" compatibility. Someone who is just a great fuck, date, night, day or two (or the online equivalent) per week, fortnight or month is suddenly completely romantically viable and valuable. So whether you have a small or large spot in your life available for a new romance, if we are compatible I would be delighted to fill it.π
I live near Newcastle, am 6 feet tall, weigh 84kg when my perfect weight is about 62kg, am vanilla sexually and have below average looks.
I have had a relationship with a woman 20 years old than me, so up to that seems about the right age range.
If anything there seems interesting, please open a chat with me and say so.
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