... considering I'm dating on Reddit 😂 So we'll see how this goes lol. I just ask that you read the whole post before messaging me please!

Let me get the 'about me' stuff out of the way first:

I'm Winnie (or Winter)! I just turned 28! I'm queer and genderqueer--AFAB if it matters--and my pronouns are they/she. I'm currently in western-central PA (in a very small town, so I'll be more specific if we start talking!) but I'm planning on moving to Columbus, OH before the end of this year.

I'm polyamorous and I live with my queerplatonic partner for stability and support, but I date solo. I also frequently utilize the relationship anarchy smorgasbord and a number of other RA principles to navigate my individual relationships, and I value my autonomy as well as each of my relationships' uniquely agreed-upon commitments. I'm really big on open and thorough communication, healthy boundaries, consent, and personal autonomy. If those are foreign words to you, we're probably not a good match.

I'm plus-size (and I often used the word fat as a neutral descriptor for myself) and I'm trying to be unapologetic about it. I'm also neurodivergent, and I'm disabled/chronically ill. I sing, I write occasionally, do some art, and take care of a lot of pets (4 dogs and 9 cats). I'm in fandoms like Marvel, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Supernatural, etc. I love musical theater and absolutely everything horror-related. Fall Out Boy has been my biggest special interest for almost 20 years, and unfortunately if you get to know me you're eventually going to have to listen to me infodump about Taylor Swift (I'm so sorry 😅). I've been described as "the friend group Fairy Gay-mother," "an enigma," and "unexpectedly terrifying, but make it cute," which I think nicely sums me up as a person.

So here's what I'm looking for:

I'm hoping to meet people in the 23-40 age range. Definitely no one under 23, as that's a big boundary for me. Preferably in the US, but that's not necessarily a dealbreaker. I'm primarily queer4queer in my dating life, which means I typically only date other people who identity as queer in some way. Beyond not being cishet, I really don't care too much about what you look like or your gender/sexuality or etc. If there's a connection, then I'm down for a relationship! However, please note that I'm a strong leftist and I'm agnostic with religious trauma, so I am 100% not interested in talking to conservatives or Christians.

I'd love to meet other polyamorous people who are potentially interested in romantic sexual relationships. I do have a lot of trauma from multiple abusive relationships in my past, but I've spent a lot of time on my own (and in therapy) working through that. My queerplatonic partner is lovely and I get a lot of things I need/want from our relationship, but I miss having partners that I have romantic and physical intimacy with, and I'm in a place where I'm ready to explore that with people again.

Brief sex/kink note: I've historically been extremely submissive. I'm hope someday to slowly and gently explore a more dominant side of myself, but I imagine I'd have to be extremely comfortable first, and even then it could be unsuccessful. Just a heads up on where I'm at with that! I also just enjoy sex and some aspects of kink without the dom/sub dynamic, so that's fine too. The catch is that I'm somewhere along the lines of demisexual and I really need to have a connection with someone before we get to the sex part 😅 But I'm very willing to discuss sex/kink early on to establish compatibility! I can send you my kinklist and everything lol

I would love to talk and get to know each other first, and establish if we'd be interested in each other/compatible/etc. If I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message with a bit about yourself and please include your favorite movie! (Helps me to know you've read the whole post!) ❤️