Hi there! I ask that you please read my post before you respond, so that we make sure that we are seeking the same things and compatible and all that junk first. I appreciate it! This post is a little long, whoopsiedoodle.

I go by Huck online (when we get to know each other better, I promise I'll tell you my actual name). I am AFAB nonbinary. I am currently on a gender journey, and I have identified as genderfluid for some time. I'm not sure if that's how I feel, but it's the closest to accurate. I am femme presenting a lot of the time.

I live in Northern Nevada, moved here in 2021 from Colorado. I miss my home state, but at least we still have mountains here. I am seeking someone who is hopefully within like a 6 hour drive range of the Reno/Tahoe area.

Here's a list of stuff about me:

• Very important - I am, for the most part, not attracted to people with pen15es. I am, however, demisexual, so if we have a good connection and vibe, it's possible. My NP is a cis man, so it's definitely happened.
• I live with my NP, my meta, and our two dogs. My meta moved in April, and I'm still adjusting. But that's our living situation. I currently only have one partner and one fwb.
• I physically cannot have children due to medical stuff, but, more importantly, I do not want my own children. I love kids, but I love being able to go home to where there are no kids and get high and watch rated R movies whenever I want and not share my snacks.
• I'm in chemical menopause and will be getting a hysterectomy in the next 2 years :)
• I have bipolar disorder that is pretty well managed with medication, but sometimes I do have episodes. The depression is much worse than the mania. I haven't had an actual manic episode since 2020.
• I'm a stoney mcpothead. It's okay if you aren't, as long as it's okay that I am.
• I have a corgi named Cordelia Chase, and her personality matches her namesake.
• I live in the middle of nowhere (our town doesn't even have a stoplight).
• I currently don't work a regular job, but I was a classroom teacher for 6 years before taking this time off.
• I have more than one advanced degree!
• I workout and do yoga regularly (nearly every day), but I'm still a curvy fella. I have pictures on my profile.
• Physical attraction is a little bit important to me, so I would like to see a picture of you near the beginning of our interaction. Once again, I have pictures on my profile, so you can see me before you message me.
• I am super kinky. It is not a necessary part of a relationship for me, but I do need someone who understands what BDSM and stuff mean and look like for me. If you’re also kinky, that’s cool too.

I am looking for a woman or a nonbinary person who can be someone I can love, take care of, laugh with, and do dorky, nerdy things with, watch movies with, hold hands with, kiss, and bake with. I am so sick of the superficial connections with people immediately turning the conversation to sex or being probably a man pretending to be a woman. I’m sick of the ghosting. I’m sick of dating apps. I just want to meet people that I like and get along with.

I've got a Taylor Swift/Jessica Day/Scott Pilgrim vibe. I'm here to make you think about death and get sad and stuff, but then awkwardly try to cheer you up.

Do you sometimes wish you could go on dumb road trips to see some dumb tourist attraction that’s probably disappointing? (I went to the World’s Largest Pistachio once, and it was as disappointing as you might expect. It wasn’t a real pistachio. It was just a sculpture, wtf?)
Do you want someone to make endless references to Bob’s Burgers and bad movies from the early 2000s?
Do you want someone to hold your hand while you get a tattoo? And then that person can't help themself and gets a tattoo as well?
Do you want someone who has been called “pretty emotionally mature” by partners in the past?
Do you want someone who will tell you dumb stories about their past that have no point and after they’ve told them they’re not sure why those words came out of their mouth?

If you answered yes to these questions, I might be the gal you’re looking for. I'd love for you to send me a message introducing yourself instead of just saying "hi." So please tell me if you have a favorite pokemon and if you do, who it is.