Hi all,

Made this account specifically to post polyrelated stuffs, and try to grow my polyamorous knowledge. I've been on that journey for a few years now, but this account is quite recent, as this part of my journey is more recent. Here is a bit about my situation, bits about myself, and what I am hoping to find!

I'm 33m in a long term stable relationship with a 37F, she lives separately from me. That of course comes with my metas as well, (both M) 42 and 47. Along with two kids (nearly 11m and 7f). I love her (37F) dearly (along with the metas and the kids, frankly). The whole thing is somewhere between true KTP and something like a "Garden Party Poly". She has her family, and I would like to start my own! Nothing too crazy, just my dog and cat, with a partner I can share a home with, and maybe a few kids of our own down the road.

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About me!

Lucky enough to be full time work-at-home employed, along with being happy, healthy, and in a pretty awesome place in my life. Huge nerd, in my own way. Tabletop RPGs, LARP, Wargaming (just got back from a convention in OKC actually), some TCGs, PC games, some console from time to time, and boat loads of other stuff! I'm also a bit of a crafting tinker type, but that comes with the territory of the above.

Fandoms, in no particular order: Firefly, Witcher, BSG, Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate, LoTR, HP (but not the author obviously), GoT, Babylon 5. If there is one you love that isn't listed, don't be sad! Tell me about your favorites. Maybe we can show each other something new!

TTRPG Game systems (for any that might care): Pathfinder, Shadowrun, Twilight 2000, War Stories, and quite a few others. Those are just my current top picks.

Personality wise- INTJ, ambivert, Enneagram Type 3. Love languages of words of affirmation and physical touch, with *showing* love through words of affirmation, giving gifts, and quality time. Put bluntly- I care for those around me by taking care of them. I recharge by being with specific people that I can relax and be myself with. I want to contribute to those around me in a positive way where I can, but I do enjoy being recognized when I contribute something they find truly of value. I put deep thought into gifts I find for my people, but those outside my circle are firmly on the outside. A few good friends is better then a whole host of barely there aquantiences in my book.

Physically- 6ft2 (yes, actually), brown hair, green/hazel eyes. Beard that changes length with the seasons. No tattoos or ink, but I do thoroughly enjoy them as peoples method of expression! Glasses, because nerd.

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What I hope to find-

As stated at the outset, I am not looking for a short term outcome here. I am seeking my partner in crime. My partner to build a life, whatever that might look like. Ideally somewhere around my age, so that we can have some life experiences in common, etc. I'm not picking on an exact age, or really much else about this lovely person I hope to find, baring the below major deal breakers:

-Anyone who is fully reliant on 420 and/or tobacco smoking to continue to exist in their daily life. I could care less what other people do with their own bodies (yay free choice!), but prolonged exposure to the smell, etc, will give me major migraines and eventually make me vomit. So, nope. I can handle being around it for short periods of time, but I can't live with it in the house.

-Anyone who would require me to give up my current creatures (Leonard and Trixie), my current partner, or current life situation. I'm sorry, but they where all here first, and I find that to be quite fair.

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What you get for meeting those deal breakers-

On the flip side, I fully expect my life long partner to have their own other partner, or partners. That is your prerogative. How that would function and operate is something we would of course discuss.

As stated, I don't care to control what other folks put into their bodies. As long as you are safe, and your actions continue to protect myself and my existing partner, than your choices are your choices.

If you have read this far, thank you! I hope to hear from you soon!

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