As the title suggests but doesn’t fully explain, I am a 31 year old AFAB non-binary person (she/her or they/them pronouns). For what it’s worth, I present heavily feminine most of the time.

A little more about me:

Tattooed, pierced, 2-colored hair, plus sized and pretty. I’ll gladly send photos if we find ourselves to be a good pairing.

• I am married to my nesting partner since 2021. We have been poly for almost the full duration of our relationship. We are currently not seeking a “third,” but would be open to the idea of dating together if the ideal opportunity presented itself. For now, I am solely posting on behalf of myself.
• We are not fully out of the “Polyam Closet,” due to our upbringings. Our families aren’t in the know, but our friends are fully aware.
• I am neurospicy (AuDHD, BPD, C-PTSD)
• 420-Friendly (although I myself don’t smoke 🍃) but I do vape. Occasional drinker, but not heavily.
• I comfortably identify as being on the asexual spectrum. I am not looking for a partner to have sex with, especially not right away. I am open to physical contact and intimacy, as I’m not fully averse — but for the time being, textbook sexual intercourse is off the table.
• To add to the point above and piggyback off it, NP and I are beginning the process of starting a family, so if children/future children are a deal breaker, I am not the right partner for you.

If you’ve made it this far, we can dive into the fun little details.

• If astrology is of any interest to you, I am a Pisces.
• I enjoy writing, painting, hockey (watching, not playing), photography, music, movies, and plenty of card/board games.
• I am a highly social creature for the most part and love to go out for meals, to see a movie, or have drinks/dancing at a local drag show (LGBTQ friendly is a must!!)
• I am a phenomenal date planner. If the opportunity presents itself, I will coordinate plenty of adorable outings for us.
• My love language is giving gifts. Although I am currently between jobs, when my financial situation allows, you can be assured you will be spoiled beyond your imagination.

You’re still reading?! I’m impressed. If you find yourself interested in any or all of what I’ve said, feel free to send me a message and we can chat more!