Hiya. We are current anchor partners; Austin, and Elle. (32m/32f) We are looking to start a tribe with another couple, through a physically emotionally intimate, Kitchen Table, Egalitarian, polyamorus relationship. No one of us is better than the other. We are each beautiful and worthy of love. We are badass, and deserve respect. Even if the world does not treat us that way, We do. As you, for us. A tribe, a family who takes care and looks out for one another. People we can trust, because they are genuinely good people, as we strive to be.

About us:

We are two beings, soulbound. We found eachother 4 years ago. We are Very different in many ways, (maybe you know the feeling?) but our bond is strong, despite our differences. We've learned that, while we do have an incredible bond, we still have room in our hearts that we just cannot fill with only eachother. We are searching for kindred spirits to grow together with, and share a relationship that will provide all of us with love, empathy, intimacy, kindness, good times, and fun.

We are open and honest, and we are kind. We love and respect animals. We are loving, and open-minded. We are sex-positive, and respectful. We are fluid, and thoughtful. We believe that communication is a necessity. We are both empaths. We are both STD-free, and do not do "hard" drugs. (no needles, crack/meth/heroin, etc.) Neither of us drink very often at all, but we will on occasion. We like to have fun and make memories.

Currently, we both have our own jobs, apartments, and cars.

We believe that our family/tribe is worth protecting/nurturing, so that we may strong enough to do the things we want to do. Stronger, together. If one of us needs help/love, we will Always do what we can. Ohana means family, and family means...

Some things we are both into:

Physical and emotional health. Music. Psychedelia, and psychedelic medicine. We are both 420 friendly. Witchy/hippie/goth/spiritual stuff. (esoteric?) Meeting and connecting with others, being a positive light and supporting eachother. Nature documentaries, science, and cooking shows. Food, making And eating. We both cook. Breakfast and desserts are big times. But also meals for the week. (Side note: Elle has a gluten intolerance, so there's lots of gluten-free food in our world. In general, we try to be healthy most of the time. Doesn't mean we don't splurge sometimes though. :D)

Who, are you?:

Genuine; honest and true to yourself and those you care about. Open to giving and receiving love/intimacy. (our well will never run dry when we pool together.) Kind. Respectful. Likes to laugh. Play games/nerdy stuff and/or go on hikes/adventures? Clean/Hygiene. I cannot stress this enough. (we both shower every other day, [or so, we're human] brush our teeth daily, and wash our hands.)

Random:

Elle grew up in the country, Austin grew up in the city. Elle goes barefoot, and communes with the earth. Austin enjoys comfort, and gets ate up by bugs. Austin's a tech wizard, but Elle's the mother of dragons. Austin knows when to stop. But Elle's just got to know. Austin's got the magic touch, but. Elle will find the key.

About Austin:

Pansexual/Panromantic, generally attracted to soft, sweet, and fiery. I'm 32, 5'11", in shape, (~140lbs), caucasian, green-eyed, good-natured, LGBTQ ally, "alternative", fiercely loyal to the deserving, careful, respectful, thoughtful, well-kept/hygienic, kind, positive, intelligent, warm, considerate, and I love to love. I am a passionate and thoughtful lover. Especially orally. It's so intoxicating, pleasing someone with the only muscle in our bodies that works harder than our hearts. Physically and emotionally. Physical touch and emotional nourishment are very important to me. It's what keeps the fire going, the engine running.

Some of the main things I am into:

Video games, board games, card games, ad infinitum. I love playing games, it's my main hobby. Let's talk about it! If you don't partake, it's ok, as long as it doesn't bother you! But it'd be nice to have someone to play with.

I work in IT; I can find my way around technology with ease. (usually, lol, computers are weird.)

Music, creating and listening. I feel it in my bones. I love to sing, and dabble in playing instruments, like guitar and piano. I'd love to hang out and jam! Writing and expression. Expression and bonding are some of my favorite parts of life.

Raising/bonding with animals, and plants.

Science, nutrition, biology, psychology, and learning new things. Exploring the depths and edges of what's real.

I take care of my body, so that it may take care of those I love.

Making others feel good / confident. It fills my heart with pride and joy to see my loves have their moments, their victories/triumphs. Even to catch them when they fall, as we all do sometimes.

Healing. Mending wounds, and soothing pain. Physically and emotionally. I've come to realize that I am gifted in that aspect. It makes me happy to share this gift with others.

To Austin, Elle..

Has a good heart, a brave and kind soul, witchy eyes, and the hand of karma. XD She's a badass, and inspires me to be better. She is always there for the people she cares about, no exceptions. I learned that from her. She never backs down from a fight.

She's a warm and fiery lover, Goddess-material, with absolutely amazing talents to match. Hands down, the best I've ever experienced. ;

About Elle:

Demisexual, sapioromantic, bicurious.

Im 5'6 and currently im about 200 pounds. I love to laugh and have a good time. I enjoy being around genuine and loving people.

I love self expression. Tattoos, piercings, and colored hair. (etc) I have one human boy child who is 9. His dad and I have a good co parenting relationship so there will be no drama. I also have children with fur. I have a bully mix and her name is Daisy Mae. I also have along haried black cat named Tux. Some things I would say describe me....

Loving, caring, logical, neurodivergent, talkative, fierce, loyal, dependable, toker, and cuddler.

I love conversation and it's something thats very important to me in any relationship. I think im funny and have a good sense of humor. Everyones mental health is important and if you dont take care of yourself you cant take care of the people that are important to you. One day I'd love to share my story with you guys. Austin was a light and a rock for me during some pretty hard times. Helping people feel better is something i really enjoy doing. I love nature and would love to have someone who would like to go on hikes/exploring and adventues sometime. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I really enjoy baking and cooking and getting to share it with my people. Intimacy comes in so many ways and i enjoy it in many different ways. I believe every connection you feel with someone is different. I can be open minded but I do need to feel 100% comfortable with you. I am a natural pleaser in a lot of ways but don't take advantage of it. I can be a bit rebellious and can be stuck in my ways sometimes. I just need some time to process but I don't have any issues admitting I'm wrong or did wrong. I love hearing and trying to understand different perspectives. People are interesting and i enjoy getting to know people. You never know what you can learn from others so let's share life stories and spread love.

To Elle, Austin..

Is kind but fierce. His smile and laugh are contagious. His facial expressions give everything away.

He will always stand up for you when you can't. His loyalty is unmatched, and he doesn't give up on the people he loves. He will always be the rock you need or the light to protect you from the dark.

Austin loves deeply and with all his heart.

He's the best gamer I know, and I'd put my money on him every time.

Pictures of us, for making this far.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1RzpVeYlhAdgkwrqWeM9Mq_qdPuDz4PJX/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1S6N4bOdDBi4hKN-6Ukbjfgl-ou0zeWpg/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XKmyiIoanl7JBtINccHARVIgMrC1MHiM/view?usp=sharing

If you've made it this far and are intrigued by what you've read, it'd be cool to talk and meet you! Maybe setup a 4-way chat, and if there's potential, go on a couple date sometime and see where the wind takes us.

Located: Central Oklahoma

Last updated: 7-10-2023