Hello all! Poly bi transman here. As the title says, I am looking to find a long term partner. Currently located an hour from Minneapolis. (Looking to relocate closer to the Cities within the next few years.)

To describe me: honest, sarcastic, and loving. On the shorter end (5”4’), average build, masculine, ginger, and furry. Communication and honesty is the most important aspect in my life, regardless of what relationship I am in. I am the person people trust to have an honest conversation where I listen, give solid advice if they want it, and comfort throughout. I’ll make you into a burrito with blankets and cuddle you if you let me.

My love languages are touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation. I am a very affectionate person by nature. I enjoy spending time with my partner(s) whether interactive or simply enoying one another’s company as we do our respective hobbies.

I strive to be a secular humanist: I attempt to understand, be empathetic, and find common ground. (With this, certain ideaologies/alignments/political alignments to be the antithesis to having peace in my life and the liberty to pursue it.) I acknowledge we will never have a true Star Trek utopia, but I do believe we can do better for the future.

I'll spend an afternoon fixing my truck, relaxing after by cuddling my cats. I spend a lot of my time watching videos, gaming on pc/xbox, and figuring out how to do new things. Most of my hobbies are lower on the physical end. I work a physically demanding job in healthcare and have “hidden” physical disabilities.

I am seeking: friendships first. (I am always open to new friends!) I am demisexual so emotional connection is essential. Ideally in a partner: someone is kind, honest, emotionally available, communicative. Bi/queer/gay and secure in your sexuality. Is more dominant and kinky. Enjoys snark and dark humor. Close to me in age (30-late 40s). Shares some of the hobbies I do. Take care of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially. I’m more concerned with your ability to know/be yourself authentically than what your cock/waist/wallet size is. Bonus points if you’re looking for a long term relationship that doesn’t demand cohabitation. Extra bonus points if you’re looking for a more serious kink partner.

My current relationships: I practice ENM. My NP is open and supportive of me having other partners. She is not looking for another relationship, but would be open to meeting my potential partners.

If you are interested in chatting, feel free to reach out here. I am open to responding to chats on Reddit.