Hello and Welcome!

Anyone else find it difficult to make friends as an adult? I’ve recently went through a significant ripple in my friend group and I’m feeling very lonely. My wife (primary) is amazing and helping me feel better, though I would like to expand and find some more people in my circle that could evolve into a very close and trusted friend or more.

I going through a few of life’s classic hiccups, so would not mind finding someone to explore and help work towards our own personal goals, give them compliments and affirmations to get them through the day, someone that I can flirt with and to help them be their best self, not to mention build a solid friendship. I would love to start here on messages to see if we are a good fit, then eventually move to a platform like Discord or even texts. I’m not looking to be some random online weirdo that is just here to boss someone around, beg for nudes, and/or then run away. I want to build a real, genuine connection. Someone I can call a friend or more.

What I am looking for from a physical standpoint, someone that identifies as female or non-binary and has female anatomy. Location, size, race, religion, and even political stance can be whatever, alls fair game. I would love to chat with someone locally, though online would be ok for building some friendships.

What about me? [ INTJ ] [St Paul, MN] Well, I have a few other posts out there looking for friends with a deeper dive description, but the short version is that I’m a 40yo white guy from the Midwest. Total dad bod, with strong legs and what I’m told is a cute butt. I like to call myself pleasantly plump, but can still actually run for a mile. I’m artsy, love music, fairly nerdy but can wear a suit and look fucking great in it. I DO NOT have a fedora. Regularly shower and maintain general hygiene, love board games, but don’t need the flyer at conventions about wearing deodorant. I’ve very good with my hands, and there’s a strong possibility I’ll make you cool things if we do hit it off as friends.

Rounding out everything in what maybe should have been the first paragraph, I am in an ENM relationship, current just my wife and I. I’m open to chat more about me if you have questions before we even decide that you’d like to see if we would be a good fit.

I’ve had a string of short term players, but I would ideally like someone long term. I guess message me either way and we can see if we click.

Your sfw pic for mine, just shoot me a DM.

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