Hi,

I'm Lilac and looking for another partner. I am married happily and my primary partner is a straight man so he's only interested in friends at the most but it's ok if you two don't interact as much (kitchen table poly is nice but not necessary).

I am bisexual and demisexual so I do not like to rush anything, especially sex. I am very kinky and only want kinky partners or those willing to explore, in particularly I'd like to have a submissive irl. I've been a Domme for years online and I'd love to try it out irl. However, I do not like discussions rushing to sexual things as it makes me uncomfortable. I like us to both know what's on the possible menu but not rushing to eat, basically.

I am also not seeking anyone under 21, ideally a minimum of 23/24 or older. Employed and with your own car and ideally tidy or doesn't mind doing the dishes. I love cooking but hate washing dishes, so we could do a trade.

I'm not into hook ups and I want an actual connection. I have struggled to find a good place to look for something like this because the hook up reddits are too horny (only wanting easy sex and pushy) or people want to rush and date (usually just to get sex) and it feels weird too. A lot of poly apps are more hook up focused too. I just want to know I have possible sexual compatibility interest wise but it not be a "so when we hooking up I was nice to you?" kind of vibe.

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I do online spicy work and wouldn't mind a partner who would want to film with me. But at the minimum you have to be cool with me doing it. I do cut people off if they have nasty opinions about that kind of work. I only disclose this because I keep this very private usually and most people would never assume I do this kind of work. I absolutely hate slutshaming and just want another partner who is accepting of that.

I also have a bit of a fetish for guys with long hair and they usually have accents. I'm open to people from other countries but unless you have real plans to come to the US on your own I'd prefer something more close. I find European men usually quite attractive (especially Swedish guys) but the distance sucks unless it's something that actually comes true.

I do play VR and we could definitely meet on there or discord if we hit it off in DMs. I love watching movies and tv, if that is one of your favorite relaxing hobbies I'd love to do that together! I also like reading and would love to share books together. Art is amazing, I do 3d design work for my business and really enjoy meeting other artists. I want to learn how to make music as singing and songwriting is one of my secret passions. I also enjoy writing. I am goth and plus size. I don't share pictures until I am comfortable but people are usually happy when I do.

I really appreciate sincerity and respect. The approach, especially a first impression is really important. I'm also located in the DFW area but if you don't mind traveling I'm open to people outside of that area as well.

My type is nerdy, not overly aggressive, intellectual and likes to have good long conversations. I also love metal music and have a lot of interests that surprise people.

If I sound interesting feel free to message me with a bit about yourself and tell me your favorite movie and why. Also, we are childfree & liberal and interested in the same.