So I’ve been a bit hesitant to post in this sub, because I feel like there’s a lot of cultural stuff with Poly that I’m probably not attuned to, and I’m probably going to say the wrong things, but I am trying to learn. I’m new to ENM, but deeply invested in the ethical component.

I’m 43, and a trans woman, in Virginia. I am married, but my wife (we’re t4t) isn’t interested in any other relationships. So for clarity I’m only posting regarding myself. I guess one might say a “V” type situation would be what I’m seeking, but ideally in the long term a kitchen table style where everyone is friendly sounds lovely 😊

I’m inherently a very emotional and sensitive person 🥺 and I’ve come to better understand that for me to consider a physical relationship, I have to have an emotional connection well established. So that seems like Demisexual, but again I’m kinda expanding my definitions

I know I write overly long things, so to try and minimize the wall of text effect, I have a pinned post on my profile with far too much about me, and more about what I might be seeking 💖

So before you check that out, perhaps a few key points for me to leave here. I am ultimately focused on developing an in person based relationship, so please be nearby to Virginia. I’m also not looking for casual hookups or fwb type things at all, as ultimately I’m all about deeper interpersonal connections. And if you want to chat or dm, please let me know where you saw me, and please tell me at least some basics about you like age, gender, and what state for location. I’ll be really sure you read through this if you include an emoji of your choosing of an animal you think is cute 🥰