For a long time, I wondered whether I was polyamorous, or just afraid of commitment. On one hand I desire the trust and commitment and reliability of an exclusive relationship but on the other the idea of only sleeping with one person ever again is kind of terrifying. After much consideration I have decided that the answer might be a triad: a closed relationship with myself and two other girls (sorry, I'm a hard 0 on the Kinsey scale) in which both girls are as into each other as I am into both.
Since finding s preexisting relationship that is open to what I'm seeking is presumably pretty rare, I am moreso interested in meeting a single partner who is interested in pursuing a third with me. Is that a tall order? Probably! But you never know until you reach out, right? Since this is the first time I am actively addressing this desire, I would love to chat about it even if we never meet.
As for me, I am a 6' white guy 195 lbs with brown hair, green eyes, and what the kids are calling 'dad bod.' leading something that resembles a functioning adult life. I have other interests and kinks as well but we can talk about those privately if the above is something you are also interested in. Hope to hear from you soon.
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