Hello and Welcome!

I’m glad you clicked in and wanted to learn more! I need to apologize upfront if you came in here expecting a sandwich. I share your disappointment. Though I’m not ruling out sandwiches in the future, what I am looking for is a a friend …with benefits. I mean, and a bag of chips.

I’m currently looking for someone to build a connection with. First and foremost, I want to build Some quality friendships within the poly space. Someone that would be into having a long-term, entry level, Soft/Support Dom. Hmm? Maybe closer to a coach? I have some experience, but I’m hoping to grow and learn. I would like to explore and help someone work towards their personal goals, give them compliments and affirmations to get them through the day, someone that I can flirt with and give tasks to complete to help them be their best self, not to mention build a relationship. I would love to start here on messages to see if we are a good fit, then eventually move to a platform like Discord or even texts. I’m not looking to be some random online false-dom that is just here to boss someone around, beg for nudes, and then run away. I want to build a real, genuine connection. Someone I can call a friend or more.

What I am looking for from a physical standpoint, someone that identifies as female and has female anatomy. Age is not a dealbreaker, but ideally someone between 27 and 45. Location, size, race, religion, and even political stance can be whatever, alls fair game. Though this will primarily be online, someone in the Midwest may get priority if we ever decided to meet in person.

What about me? [ INTJ ] Well, I have a few other posts out there looking for friends with a deeper dive description, but the short version is that I’m a 40yo white guy from the Midwest. Total dad bod, with strong legs and what I’m told is a cute butt. I like to call myself pleasantly plump, but can still actually run for a mile. I’m artsy, love music, fairly nerdy but can wear a suit and look fucking great in it. I DO NOT have a fedora.

Rounding out everything in what maybe should have been the first paragraph, my current relationship status in which would have prevented you from reading my wordy post… I am in an ENM relationship, current just my wife and I. I’m open to chat more about me if you have questions before we even decide that you’d like to see if we would be a good fit.

Your sfw pic for mine, just shoot me a DM.

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