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31/32 [MF4MF] #Oklahoma - Very different, strong bonds. Looking for the others!
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Inlovewithloving are a male/female couple ages 31 & 32 looking for a male/female couple in Oklahoma
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Hey! We're Austin, and Elle. (31m/32f) We are looking to start a tribe with another couple, through a physically emotionally intimate polyamorous relationship.

About us: We are two beings, soulbound. We found eachother 4 years ago. We are Very different in many ways, (maybe you know the feeling?) but our bond is strong, despite our differences. We've learned that, while we do have an incredible bond, we still have room in our hearts that we just cannot fill with only eachother. We are searching for kindred spirits to stand strong, grow together, and share a relationship that will provide all of us with love, empathy, intimacy, kindness, good times, and fun. We are open and honest, and we are kind. We love and respect animals. We are loving, and open-minded. We are sex-positive, and respectful. We are fluid, and thoughtful. We believe that communication is a necessity. We are both empaths. We are both STD-free, and do not do "hard" drugs. Neither of us drink very often at all, but we will on occasion. Currently, we both have our own jobs, apartments, and cars. We believe that our family/tribe is worth protecting, so that we may do good things. Stronger, together. If one of us needs help/love, we will Always do anything we can. Ohana means family, and family means..

Some things we are both into: Physical and emotional health. Music. Psychedelia, and psychedelic medicine. We are both 420 friendly. Witchy/hippie/goth/spiritual stuff. Food, making And eating. We both cook. Breakfast and desserts are big times. But also meals for the week. (Side note: Elle has a gluten intolerance, so there's lots of gluten-free food in our world.) Meeting and connecting with others, being a positive light and supporting eachother. Nature documentaries, science, and cooking shows.

Elle grew up in the country, Austin grew up in the city. Elle goes barefoot, and communes with the earth. Austin enjoys comfort, and gets ate up by bugs. Austin's a tech wizard, but Elle's got tattoos. Austin knows when to stop. But Elle's inquirin' mind's just got to know. Austin's got the magic touch, but. Elle will find the keyyy.

Who, are you?: Be genuine; honest and true to yourself and those you care about. Open to giving and receiving love/intimacy. (our well will never run dry.) Kind. Respectful. Likes to laugh. Play games/nerdy stuff and/or go on hikes/adventures? Hygiene. (we both shower every other day, [or so, we're human] brush our teeth daily, and wash our hands.)

About Austin:

31, 5'11", cut, in shape, (~140lbs), caucasian, green-eyed, good-natured, LGBTQ ally, "alternative", fiercely loyal to the deserving, careful, respectful, thoughtful, well-kept/hygienic, kind, positive, intelligent, warm, considerate, and I love to love. I am deeply affected by lovelust. Romantic, sensualist, whatever. I crave intimate, passionate love. Especially orally. It's so intoxicating, pleasing someone with the only muscle in our bodies that works harder than our hearts. Physically and emotionally. Physical touch and emotional nourishment are very important to me.

Some of the main things I am into: Video games, board games, card games, ad infinitum. I love playing games, it's my main hobby. Let's talk about it! If you don't partake, it's ok, as long as it doesn't bother you! I work in IT; I can find my way around technology with ease. (usually, lol, computers are weird.) Music, creating and listening. I feel it in my bones. I love to sing, and dabble in playing instruments, like guitar and piano. I'd love to hang out and jam! Writing and expression. Expression and bonding are some of my favorite parts of life. Raising/bonding with animals, and plants. Science, nutrition, biology, psychology, and learning new things. Exploring the depths and edges of what's real. I take care of my body, so that it may take care of those I love. Making others feel good / confident. It fills my heart with pride and joy to see my loves have their moments, their victories/triumphs. Even to catch them when they fall, as we all do sometimes. Healing. Mending wounds, and soothing pain. Physically and emotionally. I've come to realize that I am gifted in that aspect. It makes me happy to share this gift with others.

To Austin, Elle.. Has a good heart, a brave and kind soul, witchy eyes, and the hand of karma. XD She's a badass, and inspires me to be better. She is always there for the people she cares about, no exceptions. I learned that from her. She never backs down from a fight. She's a warm and fiery lover, Goddess-material, with absolutely amazing talents to match. Hands down, the best I've ever experienced. ;

About Elle:

Im 5'6 and im about 200 pounds (this girl is curvy. I have brown eyes and hair. I shaved my head but I am letting it grow out.) I do love self expression tattoos, piercings, and colored hair (ect). I have one human boy child who will be 9 this year. His dad and I have a good co parenting relationship so there will be no drama. I also have children with fur. I have a bully mix and her name is daisy mae or day day. I also have along haried black cat named tux. Some things I would say describe me.... Loving, caring, logical, neurodivergent, talkative I love conversation and it's something that important to me in any relationship. Communication is key. I like to think I funny and have a good sense of humor. Mental health is really important to me. One day I'd love to share my story with you guys. Austin was a light for me during some pretty hard times. Quality time and physical touch I would say are my top two love languages. I love being loved on and loving back. I'm a pleaser in many different ways ; ) Helping people feel better always makes me happy. I love nature and would love to have someone who would like to go on hikes/exploring and adventues sometime. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love intimacy and it comes in so many ways. I love kissing touching and feeling. I believe every connection you feel with someone is different. I can be open minded but I do need to feel 100% comfortable with you. I would consider myself a Sapiosexual. I love an intelligent human. I'm a bit rebellious and can be stuck in my ways sometimes. I just need a little time to process but I don't have any issues admitting I'm wrong or did wrong. I love hearing and trying to understand different perspectives. Humans are very interesting in many different ways. Let's share life experiences and spread the love.

To Elle, Austin.. Is kind but fierce. His smile and laugh are contagious. His facial expressions give everything away. He will always stand up for you when you can't. His loyalty is unmatched, and he doesn't give up on the people he loves. He will always be the rock you need or the light to protect you from the dark. Austin loves deeply and with all his heart. He's the best gamer I know, and I'd put my money on him every time.

Pictures of us, for making this far. It was hard to only pick one of each, but ultimately we decided to start small, and use recent pictures of us. We've already overshared alot here. But we want to be clear about who we are upfront. We want to find others that are sorta like us, y'know? https://drive.google.com/file/d/1RzpVeYlhAdgkwrqWeM9Mq_qdPuDz4PJX/view?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/file/d/1S6N4bOdDBi4hKN-6Ukbjfgl-ou0zeWpg/view?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XKmyiIoanl7JBtINccHARVIgMrC1MHiM/view?usp=sharing

If you're intrigued by what you've read, we'd love to talk and meet you! Maybe setup a 4-way chat, and if there's potential, go on a couple date sometime and see where the wind takes us.

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