Edit: I am also okay with Online! I may be able to relocate under the right circumstances.

I find myself in a peculiar position. I've been with two partners for 4 years and I live with both of them, but neither are interested in children or marriage. Odds had it that everyone I've met recently either feels the same, or is already committed to another in that regard. I don't seek to have an exclusive marriage and nuclear family, but I do want marriage and an integrated family. The legality of the marriage is a non-issue to me, but I want my marriage(s) to be as committed as any other. So, if you're open to the idea of and available to be a life partner and parent, please read on!

I'm Ari, 26 years old, demisexual, genderfluid, and obviously polyamorous. I'm open to sending pictures once we have talked a bit. I am a recovered, medicated borderline and I also manage my mental health with cannabis, so 420 friendly is a must. I'm leftist and atheist.

I am kinky, though that is not something I require in a partner at the moment. I am a sadomasochistic switch, and I'm happy to discuss kinks further via DMs (CBT tops my list for the record 👀)

I'm a maker, I make all kinds of things but lately I've been doing a lot of embroidery work on my embroidery machine and making plush animals to sell at craft shows and whatnot. I love crafting, painting, drawing, building things, anything I can do with my hands. I also love playing video games, mostly PvE survival especially with story-rich RPG elements. The Long Dark is a good example of my kind of video game. Also I just tried Omega Strikers and I am SO down to playing with you 😁 I love animation and watch cartoons more than anything else, both adult and young adult cartoons (in the vein of ATLA), And I enjoy a lot of comedic shows as well. Community and The Good Place are two of my faves. I prefer fantasy over sci-fi but as long as we're cuddling, I can try to watch anything. I love board game nights and puzzles, I really would love to have a partner that wants to spend time doing stuff together beyond what's on a PC. I'd love to have a garden one day, flowers and vegetables, and spend some time outside. love indie music and a bunch of other genres, but getting into it is annoying. Just know that I have a soft spot for nautical ballads. Also I collect vinyl records!

If you've made it this far, I assume you're either a very dedicated reader or interested in me. For the latter of you, feel free to reach out to me via messages or preferably reddit chat. I don't reply to messages that don't include some effort, so if you want me to be interested in you, come up with more than just "hey".