âSweet dreams are made of this. Who am I to disagree?â The point of relationships is to improve the overall wellness of an individual. There are types of relationships with others that motivate your aspirations and others that increase merriment. Practical benefits like health and mental wellness are often the focus of these relationships, making you look and feel better over time.
Being the best âyouâ that can be achieved requires a sense of energy and motivation that often gets stymied with procrastination and limited social energy. Finding motivation requires a sense that your hopes and dreams are not only achievable but can be nurtured by the earnest interest of your most cared-about persons. Finding the hope (and/or confidence) from within yourself can be difficult for most; a relationship can allow this to blossom naturally.
Trauma, of any mental and physical form, can outlast the desire to fix it and overcome the knowledge of how to remedy it. The cornucopia of ways of being hurt are as abundant as those wanting to help, yet rarely do these exist in the same place at the same time. A relationship, where trust and sincerity are explicit, can allow the healing process to begin in a more efficient path, belaying the struggles of self-healing and dubious diagnoses.
Life is full of bad decisions, from people you know and give terrible advice for your life path to people you donât and canât seem to find that would help you progress. Benevolent and beneficial is a rare outcome that alludes most everyone. A relationship that produces good life choices serves as a divider between a wealth of comfort as opposed to struggling while living from paycheck to paycheck. A relationship can provide the optimal form of fun and interaction, not requiring the consumption of goods and services that reduce stressors and damage long-term plans.
Every relationship boils down to one very important and practical situation: can you just do nothing with a person and be happy. There are good times in life, and there are rough patches as well, but most of life is merely existing between the two extremes. These points are where a relationship either breaks you down âtil youâre happier alone or brings you in âtil your destinies entwine. Being happy with a person even when thereâs nothing to do is the cornerstone of every deep relationship.
Relationships provide a myriad of positive benefits and help with the struggle that everyone has pushing forward on their path in life, regardless of desired destination. Weâve already found happiness with each other and have worked through the trauma of our past. Weâre happy, but now we want to find other couples who have also mastered what they're good at and want to improve other aspects of their lives and relationships.
So, couples who feel that they have reached a place of happiness in their relationship and seek others to create a new quad to improve themselves within, send us a message or chat, and weâll respond back. Weâre looking for friends before anything more, so any age/gender/etc. dyad that wants to know more about us, feel free to respond.
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