37, F, Poconos PA - I put F4M because I’m not sure how to communicate that I am, what I believe, is pan. ugh sorry

I am looking for a partner close to me in the Poconos area of PA. If it’s long distance and we click, so be it. There is a direct bus route to NYC, im fine with traveling a few hours, I just am looking for connection and general lack of shitty people. I travel frequently to Texas (going on Thursday to the Beaumont/Houston area 😉)

I am married to a very open, considerate, amazing husband. He is aro mostly. We have two children. My five year old has high support needs and my younger son (2) has low support needs but the main part of my life and biggest importance is being their parent and they take priority in my life. Always. Without question.

I am originally Texan, I gave a bit of an accent. I’m an illustrator and designer by trade. I have a graduate degree. I am a giant nerd. Gaming, comics, anime, music, movies, shows, fantasy, d&d - im there for all that nerd shit. I like to go out, and dress up, and have someone put their hand on the small of my back and make me feel safe lol I love that shi t 🫠😂 PC gaming and Switch gaming are my big things. I also sketch and drawl and read daily. But I’m pretty to myself, despite being an extrovert.

I am autistic and adhd (AuDHD) I don’t wanna be “protected,” I want a partner. I’ve done a lot in my life without needing protection. This means I’m direct, and need direct communication. I’m a great partner, but accommodation is necessary.

I am pansexual, and interested in more masc leaning identities but am not closed about this.

I am 5’9, my hair is brown with blond tips that I dye various colors through the years. I am curvy, thick, etc with an hour glass figure. I go to the gym but I am still a “big girl,” I love my body now. You don’t have to. That’s okay. But I don’t want to be with someone who can’t respect or love my body the way it is. If we become closer I’ll happily trade pictures.

I am a high sex drive, high libido individual - but I do not want to talk to you about sex in our first conversation. That shit being the only topic ever is getting really fucking old. I love sex. I want it daily. But I don’t want some person I’m trying yo meet and build a relationship with just shoved headfirst up my ass for something they ain’t getting. As much as I love sex I’m likely also demisexual. So if that’s all you want please stay out of my inbox. I’m tired y’all, and a mom, I don’t got time for creepy people fishing for a hookup.