Hi there! As the title of my post indicates, I would love to make a connection with someone(s) within driving distance of Pittsburgh for companionship, fun dates, and maybe, eventually romance.

I’ve been “doing polyamory” in some form for close to a decade. I’ve dated in both triad and more parallel configurations. I’m open to both structures, though all relationships need the space to develop organically without pressure.

I’m what happens when nerdy, independent women go to the gym. I’m preparing for my first powerlifting meet later this year. My training is a huge part of my life and my routine. I would be particularly interested in connecting with folks who can relate to that lifestyle.

When I’m not under a barbell, you can usually find me with my nose buried in a fantasy novel or playing games on the PS5 while snuggling my two cats. I also love to be outdoors when Pittsburgh weather allows, and can often be found getting lost on a hiking trail.

I love connecting over books, film, and other media. Some of my best dates have been wandering Barnes and Noble talking about books we’ve read or would like to read. I also enjoy exploring my city, going to see musical theatre, and checking out new restaurants and breweries. I strive to shop local and I love a farmer’s market.

One of the more unique niche hobbies I enjoy is watching AEW professional wrestling, which tends to surprise people. I love the drama and theatrics paired with feats of athletic ability. It’s silly and a great way to unwind from my corporate 9-5.

Physically, I’m muscular while still being soft in all the right places (not skinny). Shoulder length golden brunette hair and hazel eyes. I’m average height at 5’5” but I feel short, haha. Style ranges from sporty to alternative/spooky, but I know how to class it up when the occasion calls for it.

If you want to know more, I’d be happy to hear from you!