Hello there!

I'm a happily married, creative, kinky, non-neurotypical woman who is into music (a bit of everything but primarily goth,/rock/metal/punk/80's pop/various "waves"), horror movies, cooking and baking, painting, pets, crafts, tabletop and RPG gaming, comics, reading, and performing arts. I'm a model/actress by trade and hope to add writer to the list someday if I can ever actually finish a story!

I am an active participant in both the swinger and BDSM lifestyles. I have been poly for several years now. I identify as a pansexual Switch with a hard Domme lean and would be interested in exploring kink with someone but it's not necessary. Submission is a hard-won prize from me so please don't go into this thinking you'll get it.

While I am ultimately an omnivert, I can be a bit quiet/shy until I get to know someone and get comfortable. I am a drinker ( mostly social and I rarely drink at home) and will indulge in an occasional cigarette or 4/20. I am often described as classy, elegant, and as having an alt/pin-up-ish style. I live about 45 minutes outside of Knoxville but I hang out there regularly.

I am looking for a romantic and creative man 25 ( with some wiggle room for the right person) for dating and ultimately a long-term relationship that is local to the Knoxville area or visits regularly already. Tattoos, piercings, long/fun colored hair, nerdiness, and alt styles are greatly welcomed and adored. I would love to find someone who enjoys live music, going to the goth club, checking out restaurants, has a sense of style, and is comfortable going out as well as hanging out at home. No addicits/hard drugs ( this is a hard deal breaker for me). Being a night owl is a huge plus as I tend to keep odd hours.

Must be able to hang out with primary partner. I do not ask that you be best friends or anything but you must be ok sharing space and me. I am NOT interested in LDRs or Online only relationships. Please , Please, Please have social media that is NOT Snapchat!!!! My brain is not compatible with it! If you feel like we could be friends send me a message! Your pics get mine.