âThe greatest thing youâll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.â Weâre seeking a couple to build a lifelong relationship with. We value humility and selflessness as paramount to our lives. Taking our time and slowly developing a relationship that lasts into our later years is what weâre putting emphasis on. Weâre Democrats and have spiritually focused beliefs. We avoid conservatism and religious fanaticism.
Love is a strong bond that carries forth in the hardest of times without deterring from each other. Itâs not a fleeting passion, simple accomplishment, or role that you play while you're currently in a relationship. Itâs a goal towards becoming better together and a direction that always leads you down the right path. Love provides a feeling of safety and being deeply cared for, a shelter from the fiery winds that batter the spirit and break the body. Love is not obsessive lust. Love is not status-seeking romance.
Providing the support and care to those you care about without burdening them with your own ambitions and desires is essential to being in a relationship. Offering assistance because youâve observed and understood the needs and wants of another is different than meddling obsessively and forcing quick-fix solutions that just lead to more problems down the road.
The best rewards in life are the ones that require an unswerving commitment over an entire lifetime. The happiness and health of those you care about over years isnât something that can be measured, but it undoubtedly surpasses being meaninglessly happy in the short term. Filling a home with impulse purchases and novelties that have no emotional significance or utility is dreadful.
Dating is opening yourself up to the possibility of new relationships, but it is made terrible by those who are seeking to fulfill a delusional fantasy or add another notch on their bedpost.
Worldview is usually the best indicator that things are going to work out in a new relationship. Trying to ignore subtle red flags and hope theyâll change later is unilaterally disadvantageous. We believe that the government should be aimed at helping the most people as possible, especially those who canât help themselves (children and disadvantaged) and prevent/correct systemic discrimination. We hope to live in a Blue State as soon as possible and canât imagine why anyone would want to MOVE to a Red State (theyâre awful.) When it comes to religion, we donât. Finding what works for you spiritually and enriches your life is all well and good, but anything that starts telling people how they should live their lives and who they should mob-mentality hate is completely abhorrent to us.
Weâre looking to make something that doesnât naturally exist, something ascended beyond the paradigm, so creating it from scratch will require a bit more understanding and resoluteness. Weâre waiting for a couple and arenât looking for singles. Weâre very much pro-LGBTQ and are accepting of any couple that is benevolent and honest.
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