Hi! I’m looking for a potential relationship, in the PNW. I like to take things a bit slow and get to know each other before jumping into anything. I am open to a couple, I’ve had good experiences with that in the past, but I like an ongoing emotional connection and not just hookups. I have a partner [38F] of 5 years who is my NP and primary. You’re welcome to meet/chat with her or not, that’s completely up to you. We aren’t looking for any kind of triad or to date together or anything.

As the title says, I’m 31 and a non-binary femme living in Seattle. I travel to Portland and Eugene about once a month, and am open to anyone in Seattle, Portland or anywhere in between. I love an excuse to travel! I also go to NYC a few times a year, so if you live in that area and are ok with very occasional meetups, feel free to message me! Traveling is one of my favorite things and I go to Ireland, the UK and Europe about once a year, on the off chance that anyone would want a super long distance connection.

For the physical: I’m plus sized (240lbs), redhead, 5’8”, very squishy and cuddly.

My personality and such: I love hiking and just generally being in nature, baking, cooking, video games (let’s be friends on animal crossing?), music, aquariums, road trips, seeing new places & just new experiences in general. I have a cute little dog named Bagel, who will be your best friend after some treats. I’m leftist and most of the people in my life are queer and/or trans, so homophobes, transphobes and conservatives are not welcome. I’m into kink and am a sub leaning switch.

Some logistics - My NP and I have an agreement to not host while the other is home. She does 2-4 week trips in the summer and shorter ones year round, so there’s usually a good amount of time for me to host. When I’m in Portland, I stay with a friend and can’t host, but I’m happy to go in on a hotel/Airbnb, if needed, for either Portland or Seattle. I’ll be in Portland until Sunday, and then Eugene for a few days after that. DM me if you’re interested!