hi y’all! i’m 30, nonbinary (they/them), latine, fat, bisexual, polyam, and married. i’ve been polyam for about 7 years and my spouse and i date separately. currently, i don’t have any other partners and i’m living with my spouse and our 2 dogs.

i’ve been in the phoenix area for months now and i’d really like to make some new connections! i’m looking for polyam lgbtqia folks who are either local or anywhere on the west coast (or even further if we really hit it off) for long-lasting friendships and possible long-term romantic relationships.

please note: you must be 25 ! NO cishet men, right-leaning, terfs/swerfs, cops/military.

basically, i’d like to really get to know someone deeply, someone i can be comfortable with, whether it’s platonic or it turns into something serious romantically. i like being best friends with my partners. i like to flirt and be teased and have good banter. i tend to gravitate towards people who are neurodivergent like myself, those who have a nurturing and caring nature, and a good sense of humor with bad puns and dad jokes.

i enjoy writing, roleplaying, photoshop, playing video games, binge-watching tv/movies, scrolling through tumblr and tiktok, cuddling with my dogs, playing board games with my family. while i’m fully vaccinated, i still mask when i’m out, so i like to go to concerts and live shows, visit museums and aquariums, check out the farmer’s markets, go to the movies, and shop at bookstores.

i’m extremely introverted and a homebody, mainly due to being neurodivergent and having chronic pain that limits mobility. my response time can vary too because of this, so i don’t do well with pushy/clingy texts.

with that said, i prefer chatting on here for a while before moving to discord, and then possibly meet in person if there’s that spark. so if you think we’d mesh well, please send a chat/dm! low effort messages will go unnoticed.

hope to hear from you!