hi y’all! i’ve been in the phoenix area for months now and i’d really like to make some new connections! i’m 30, nonbinary (they/them), latine, fat, bisexual, polyam, and married. i’ve been polyam for about 7 years, and my spouse and i date separately. we live together with our 2 dogs. currently, i have no other partners.

i’m looking for polyam lgbtqia folks who are either local or anywhere on the west coast (or even further if i really like you) for long-lasting friendships and maybe even long-term romantic relationships.

basically, i’d like to get to know someone deeply, maybe get a little flirty, and hopefully it can develop into something serious. i like being best friends with my partners. i tend to gravitate towards neurodivergent people, a good sense of humor, those who can be nurturing and caring, and incredibly dorky.

please note: you must be 25 ! NO cishet men, right-leaning, terfs/swerfs, cops/military!

i enjoy writing, roleplaying, binge-watching tv/movies, scrolling through tumblr and tiktok, cuddling with my dogs, playing board games, and listening to rock and pop music. i’m pretty much a pop culture/fandom nerd and can get hyperfixated on certain media. even though i’m fully vaccinated, i still mask when i’m out, so i like to go to concerts and live shows, visit museums and aquariums, check out the farmer’s markets, go to the movies, and shop at bookstores.

i can be a big flirt, and while i’m in the kink/bdsm scene, that’s not required at all, but it’s honestly a big part of who i am. however, i really don’t want things to become sexual right away. i much prefer having that spark and letting things naturally progress.

i’m also extremely introverted and a homebody, mainly due to being neurodivergent and having chronic pain that limits mobility. my response time can vary too because of this, so i don’t do well with pushy texts.

with that said, i prefer getting to know each other online before meeting. i’d like to chat on here for a bit before moving over to discord, so if you think we’d mesh well, please send a chat/dm! low effort messages will go unnoticed.

hope to hear from you! 🩷