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So I am going to admit that a part of this is due to me being a bit kinky. The idea of having a connection with two people who also care about each other, and then the situations that can arise from that draw me in. Besides that though I also love being affectionate and cuddling and having two people to do that with sounds amazing even without any dirty being involved.
You might as why I bring up the kinky aspect if I am just as interested in the non-sexual... Well, the truth is I believe in being upfront. If you can't trust me to be myself then you can't trust me to show you respect or to accept your boundaries. Trust in any relationship is important to me and therefore honesty is as well.
So then let's talk more about what I would be looking for. I wouldn't want someone who dates separately from their partner. I don't see that as something that will work long-term. I would rather have a couple who is open to dating together and since I am a male that means a bi-male in the couple beside me. This way all three of us could date all three of us.
I would want to start out online, talk and get to know each other. that way we can make sure we are compatible, and who knows maybe we just end up being friends and that is okay, or maybe we end up as more.
A little about me is I try to be upfront, I am more submissive, I am a big gamer, and I have no shame. If you want to start out chatting a bit every few days that is fine, but if you want to start out with real heavy flirty I am down. I won't hesitate. I like making people happy, but I will take the actual relationship aspect slow.
Hope to hear from someone soon.
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