If you’re lonely — oh, so am I.

My heart yearns for someone to message throughout the day — to have someone to check in on, to inquire about their day, to encourage and uplift and have that returned in spades. I’d love to connect about our favorite media — tell me about the books you’ve read, anime you’ve watched, games you’ve played, songs you can’t stop listening to — and I’ll do the same. I want to send you songs that remind me of you — I want to write a little poem to cheer you up throughout the day. In the same way I tenderly water my plants every Sunday morning, I want to nurture and tend to you. I want you to be my garden.

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Hey, I’m Kai. I’m genderfluid, partnered, poly, and pansexual, and I live in a sleepy, small New England state. I’m genderfluid, he/they, and 30 — and hoping to make connections to people around my age. I’m a writer — I write poems, short stories, and I’m currently working on a dark fantasy novella. If you’re a creative — if you write or sing or draw or whatever calls to your spirit — I’d love to connect with you, especially. I would love to be with someone who knows the highs and lows of a creative life — the thrill of a completed project, the despair of doubting yourself, and all the ups and downs in-between. Let’s encourage each other to keep creating!

I’ve been described as a soft Dom. I love to nurture, to take care of people, to provide comfort. I love to flirt and tease, too — nothing is better than getting someone super plushy and bright red. <3

Ultimately, I’d love to find folks that want to talk but also do things together — I’d love to plan movie nights, or have a mini book club, just the two of us, or watch anime or game together. And if this blossoms into something more, that’d be all the better, but I think we should take this slow. I’m not in a rush to do anything sexual and I hope you aren’t either — if feelings blossom, let’s embrace them as they arise, but I strongly believe you can’t rush things like this.

I’m in New England (EST), but as long as time zones aren’t too extreme between us, it doesn’t matter where you are — I’d love to connect with you.

I’d be happy to send a photo if you’d like to exchange them. If you’re curious about what I look like: I’m 5’11”, slender frame, round/circular glasses, warm, brown skin (I’m Black), long, straight black hair and brown eyes.

Send me a message telling me a bit about yourself and we can connect on another messenger platform after. I’m looking forward to meeting you. ❤