We realize we may never find anyone local due to living in such a small town. Our county has only 6,000 residents in 3,152 square miles. Poly relationships aren't so much frowned upon here as they are completely unheard of and "coming out" as it were has damaged our ability to make friends.

Do you like long distance relationships? Or would you enjoy a slow pace of life in a small western town with mountains, lakes, and rodeos? Effort is attractive to us and we are more than willing to reciprocate if you are interested in visiting or relocating. We are entirely enough for each other - now and forever...but we both have so much love and in return love to bask in others.

I'm Chris and she's Haley.

I'm straight, but open and friendly. I opened myself up to polyamory 16 years ago and have participated in faithful monogamous relationships, including my marriage, up until we decided polyamory mutually suited our needs better.

I have lots of hobbies like all forms of gaming, crafts, outdoor sports, and weight lifting, but the top of my list is community. I'm an introvert that loves people, loves being loved, and loves loving people. What makes them tick, what makes them smile, learning about them and finding a way forward is the most interesting of all journeys, in my opinion.

The rough side, some say I can be cold, or have a limited emotional range...they just don't know the thoughts I have inside my head. Yes, I am abrupt, concise, and decisive. It's how I need to function in the world to stay healthy, and have some energy for myself and my loved ones when I get home.

Haley, she's solidly pansexual but prefers women because who else will do her hair and makeup with her if not her girlfriend? She's new to polyamory as of three years ago. She's beautiful, hits the gym with me three times a week, and her hair is a different wild color every month!

She loves to sing, play her guitar, and reminisce about the days she worked with horses. She's also a social butterfly - introvert low energy at home, center of the party when we are out and about. Once in a while she helps me with or participates in one of my activities and it means the world to me.

Together, we are driven, working to build a stable, lasting future...so we work hard to make sure there will always be a future; a roof over our heads, food in the cupboard, gas in the tank. We are intelligent, dedicated, and hopeful. We are two that go the extra mile, even in the worst of times. If you are the same, we can do anything.

On an average day off, you'll find us hitting up the big cities for a shopping trip, hitting the lake to sail, or exploring some new trail in the mountains. We love to host a movie night, go to karaoke for Haley to sing at the bar, music, road trips...or if COVID wasn't around, enjoy some local festivities. We don't have children and have never planned to. If having children is important to you that is something we can discuss.

You: Responsible, empathic, able to share attention, loving the girly girl stuff, loving being physically affectionate, trusting. I believe in responsibility and being worthy of your trust. Be self-sufficient, even if it's on the low end. Community is for combining resources, and we both know what the low end is from experience. Did I mention girly girl? Because Haley loves makeup, clothes, and shoes...for days and days and days. And, at the core? Be our friend, our very best friend, as she and I are for each other. With three people, we can rock this world. You don't have to love our cats, but we do; please try to accept that they are precious to us. We have two, they are both around a decade old, and they love us as much as a cat can - I'm sure they'll love you, too.