TLDR, big picture stuff:

1. We're both spiritual people. We'd prefer that you also believed in God no matter your religion.
2. Not into polyamory for fulfilling lust. It's a serious commitment and I'll marry you both. We will ensure fair treatment of everyone in our relationship.
3. We're both virgins, and have only taken things up to the third base.
4. We'd prefer someone who's intelligent, kind, empathetic, and of a giving nature because both of us are like that.
5. We'd prefer it if you were around 25-30 years of age.

Our story:

I'm 26M and she's 36F. We met on Reddit. We met once in Dec '22 and once in Jan '23. So it has only been a month since we've known each other and fell in love. We've been talking to each other online since then as I'm in the US and she's in India.

I'm (26M) a master's student of engineering about to graduate with a 4.0 GPA. I have confidence in my ability to be a really good engineer and earn well. I'm a technically inclined person and passionate about my field. I don't like to mention what I'm about to because it brings up stereotypes in people's minds but...I'm from India. I grew up in a couple of countries as a kid and I learned English before I learned Hindi. I've been told by interviewers that they can't believe that I've only been in the US for 1.5 years and am picking up the accent pretty well. Basically, what I want to say is please don't have stereotypes of us in your mind. Physically, I'm 5ft 10in (6 ft in any kind of shoes). My hobbies are going to the gym, playing badminton, playing guitar, singing, creating art for t-shirts/stickers, and reading. I follow Hare Krishnas spiritually.

My girlfriend (36F) works as a consultant back in India. Her time is spent mostly at her job and taking care of her mom who's unwell. She's into baking, spirituality, music, movies, but she doesn't get the time to indulge in them much because she's a kind and responsible person who is taking care of her mom. She's a beautiful and 5ft 9in. She's a non-denominational Hindu but she also appreciates Hare Krishnas.

We're both into astrology and have matched our birth charts as well. I believe that all the bad stories that come out about polyamory, polygamy, and even regular marriages, are because people do not match their birth charts before marriage. I'd like to match all our birth charts to see if we're compatible.

My Dream Life:

1. I want to be a good husband. If I have just enough money for a roof over my head, some food, and some money set aside to take care of my parents as they get older, I'm set. I don't need anything else and will use the rest of the money for our family. I'm ok with a cheap smartphone and a cheap car that gets me from point A to B. Also, I'm pretty confident in my abilities to do well financially.
2. I want to be a good father. I already have dreams and plans about all the values I want to inculcate in my kids to make them good and successful human beings.
3. I want to indulge myself in spiritual stuff like doing all the rituals required of me, celebrating festivals, go to temples, etc. I'm a man of simple tastes. If possible, I want to construct a temple myself.

These videos inspire me and looking at the women who are happy and fulfilled makes me believe that it's possible:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lu9CTnWJBQ&ab_channel=TheNewYorker

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-Pm5092a0c&ab_channel=ABCNews

Practical considerations:

1. I know I can stay in the US but my feet are not firm. I'm still on a visa. Because of that, I can't call her over. Also, by the time I sort that out, years will pass us by. If I can marry you or if you can marry her then we can all live together.
2. It's difficult to have children as one gets older. My current gf and I may not be able to have kids by the time, things move forward and we are all in a relationship. In case, the doctors say that it's not wise to have kids, what we can do is, take your egg, my sperm, and my current GF's womb. That way all three of us will have a link to our baby and both of you can be moms. It'll strengthen our relationship.
3. If you're career-oriented then my current gf would be the right fit for us as she wants to be a stay-at-home mom.
4. If both of you want to stay at home, I'll try my best to support all of us but it'd be better if we start a business to support our family financially.

Benefits of our union:

1. Spiritual support and atmosphere. God is the ultimate aim of life in our opinion.
2. Easier to raise kids if there are more parents. I have two degrees and my current GF has two degrees. We can pour a lot of knowledge into our kids.
3. Financial ease if two people are working or if we start a business.
4. High chances of good kids with good spiritual values who'd not only do well for themselves but will also do good for society and make us proud.
5. Lots of love and affection.