Transgirl, pansexual, partnered. First time making one of these, so feedback is appreciated

Looking for something in between the fwb and lover area of poly. What that means to me is that being friends is important, sex is important but feels are on the table (encouraged! but not a necessity).

I've lurked the poly sub for a few years now and have read a decent amount of lit at this point. My partner and I both date solo and sometimes fuck together (that's not what I'm looking for here, to be clear).

Mostly interested in femmes (trans welcome ofc) Willing to unicorn for casual stuff, but you will probably have to travel to me. I do date cis men, but I already have enough in my life.

My ideal partner is pan (I'm hot, but clocky, I really have no idea how monosexual people feel about me)

My ideal partner has other partners (helps to keep time/resource expectations even)

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Sexually, I'm versatile/switch. I have lots of experience topping but would like a chance to explore my submissive side.

I have ADHD and have had numerous hobbies throughout my life. I can enjoy most things, but I'm particularly drawn to art that combines the beautiful and the grotesque. I do enjoy outdoor stuff like hiking, but it's not my main bag. My biggest source of exercise is yoga (which I teach). I like make-up, thrift shopping, I have two cats, I play a lot of music.

Some media I like:

Movies: Horror, surrealism, art-house, David Lynch, John Waters, exquisite trash like Valley of the Dolls

TV: Twin Peaks, Sopranos, The Americans, Evangelion, an embarrassing amount of Rupaul's drag race, White Lotus

Fiction: O'Conner, Carsen, Borges, Lispector, Joyce (looove short stories)

Non-Fiction: Baudrilliard, Bataille, Nitch, Jameson, Heidegger, Kant, ya know, the fun ones

Music: sad folk music, post-punk, post-rock, ambient, industrial, drone, hyper-pop, house, edm

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Please do not reply as a single man unless you're hot, queer, and have a lot in common with me.