I'm a nerdy, kink-adjacent demisexual extroverted-introvert with a penchant for chaos and I live and breathe empathy. How do all of those qualities fit into one person? I'll tell you how: Anxiety, with a bit of ADHD sprinkled in.
I currently two partners and I like things to be kitchen table. Or at least... The kitchen table's there and whether you want to sit at it is up to you. 99.99% of the time I am going to date separately. I'm less opposed to other arrangements than I used to be, but I still think anything else would be a lot of work!
Politically, I'm somewhere on the left and I am hoping that me saying that deters bigots. Having empathy makes it pretty easy to not be an awful person, as it turns out. There's always room for improvement and I work hard on being my best self.
Professionally, I do software development and constantly think I'm the best thing ever while also fighting imposter syndrome with varying degrees of success. I've got other career aspirations that might get moving if money ever stops being a thing and my degrees don't match up with what I'm doing at all.
I'm looking for mutually-uplifting experiences. New romantic relationships would be nice. Touching butts wouldn't be awful either. I'm at home expressing any feelings people happen to stir up in me and I have recently understood that that might not be very common.
Send me a message and let me know what you're after. None of this needs to be more of a pain in the ass than that. I hope. I guess unless we negotiate pains in the ass first.
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