Hi everybody :) I moved to HTX in 2020 and have been in school so I haven’t had much time to make non-school/work friends & acquaintances. Now that I’m about to get my life back, I’d like to change that.

About me:

I’m a petite Black pansexual woman new to the poly life (but have been ENM since I was about 19). I work in a traditionally stuffy profession that misleads ppl who don’t know me to believe that I’m a normie when in fact, I’m actually several chipmunks and a squirrel stuffed into a human costume. Lol I’m a silly, bubbly nerd who absolutely adores anime, webtoons, manga, & mmo adventure video games. I also like reading queer rom coms and fantasies, and I dabble in digital art. Those are the major things but the list of interests is long. Im also a kinkster (bdsm) and I have one partner [M28] currently who lives in a different city. I’m also child free and intend to stay that way.

What I’m looking for/value:

I’m looking for poly friends who are 25-34ish, on the queer spectrum, and chalked full of nerdy interests. Ppl who are a good mix of fun/bubbly and sarcastic or have a bit of dark humor. I typically get along best with ppl who are head strong, positive and confident as I have enough confidence in and optimism about life/myself to light up all the major US cities on a map at night. I enjoy learning from my friends and sharing/bonding over things they’re interested in from tv shows and games to hobbies and music to personal life philosophies and career stuff. Otherwise, I tend to do well with honest, kind humans, so if that’s you, wonderful. Last but not least, It’s totally cool if you have kids, I’m sure they’re great, but I generally don’t (have the patience to) enjoy hanging out with children or being around them for extended periods.

I’d love to get together with a group of fellow alt-lifers, as I call us, to grab a bite, a drink, or have a game/movie night or generally go do something fun.

If interested pls message me :)