Who am I: I’m married, individually practicing non-hierarchical non-monogamy and located near Cleveland, Ohio. I am a dad and I have the body to match. I think I’m more fun than I probably am, but my kids don’t seem to notice. I like peace and quiet, but I also love amusement parks and rollercoasters. I’ve learned to love the outdoors, but I prefer to explore with someone else. I play loud music in the kitchen when I’m cleaning and even louder music in the car as I sing along. I secretly love karaoke, but really need someone to go with me. I love to discover new things, share your hobbies with me and I’d love to join you. I am a geek/nerd with all the cliche associated with that classification. I love sci-fi and fantasy. I play board games, video games, and dungeons and dragons. I think I’m pretty witty and I’m always looking to make a sarcastic remark or a joke about something. I think the most important aspects to a relationship are openness, respect, safety, consent, communication, and clarity. I like to take care of people and be there for them. I believe that each partner can add something new to your life you didn’t even know was missing, or teach you more about yourself or the world. I want to have fun with someone mentally and physically. I love kissing and cuddling and I’m a bit kinky. I want connection and then romance. I’m looking for partners that can enjoy these things with me. Pour me an old fashioned and ask me anything you’d like.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for like minded partners over 25 that I vibe with, and that I have mutual attraction with. There’s magic in just clicking understanding each other and feeling excited to be with one another. I’m looking for a connection to add more to my life. I’m looking for women who’d like to go out and have fun, but don’t mind staying in. Someone who thinks romantic gestures are cheesy, but also appreciates them. You don’t have to be nerdy too, but it may help you understand me. I’m 5’8 and someone shorter is a preference. If you have red hair or an accent, bonus points. More bonus points if you are a bit kinky. My partner should respect the time I spend with my family, but also be someone I’m excited to come back and be with again. Friendship is the basis of all relationships, so let’s start there.

So if this interests you, or you’d just like to say hello and good luck I welcome you to message me and ask me anything you’d like. Thank you for reading til the end, even if I don’t hear from you I appreciate your time.